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What Fediverse instances would you recommend to others? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Cantaloupe877@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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The Fediverse is huge and overwhelming to a newcomer, with many different types and each with servers to pick from. Which ones would you suggest checking out or avoiding?

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[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 80 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Assuming we're talking about instances we'd recommend to new Fediverse users, I'd recommend against lemmy.world. Not because there's anything wrong with the instance, but simply because it's the largest, by a fairly large margin. A central principal of the fediverse is decentralization, and to that end, it's healthier to spread the users across many instances than to have folks concentrated too heavily on any one.

[–] everett@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A central principal of the fediverse is decentralization, and to that end, it's healthier to spread the users across many instances than to have folks concentrated too heavily on any one.

It's certainly healthier for the whole to have users spread across instances, but that's a matter of emergence. What's your pitch to convince an individual to choose a smaller instance, when it's far more likely that their instance will cease to exist, taking their identity, history and hosted communities with it?

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[–] Cantaloupe877@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I figured joining the biggest one would be the most exciting and active. I believe federation happens when a user on one instance follows another, so joining a smaller one might mean you miss some content. I could be wrong though.

[–] testaccount372920@piefed.zip 19 points 1 month ago (3 children)

You're only missing content if your instance defederates from another and vice versa or if you block instances yourself.

It might be a bit easier to find new communities at first by scrolling through the local feed on a bigger community, but you can also do this without making an account there.

I think stability and speed of an instance are better selection criteria since they effect your experience much more. Piefed instances tend to offer a smooth and fast experience. E.g. piefed.social, piefed.zip, and the others mentioned in one of the other comments.

[–] everett@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

You're only missing content if your instance defederates from another and vice versa or if you block instances yourself.

You're missing content from communities that no one on your instance follows yet.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 month ago

Yep, but piefed and lemmy both have tools to propogate communities to small instances so that they can be discovered and followed. So you won't see content that no one on the instance is interested in, but if someone is, they'll be able to find the community for it, even if they're on a small instance.

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[–] PosiePoser@feddit.org 8 points 1 month ago

Problem with lemmy.world is that because it's got so open registration, some instances block it entirely. Though it's a good place to start and know what to expect. Because Lemmy is pretty slow, I personally prefer to browse All - New and just block all Communities (and instances) that I don't want to see. I subscribe too of course for those times I just want to see the content I'm actually interested in but for casual browsing, browse by all.

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

There are tools nowadays that share communities around to smaller instances through bot accounts that auto subscribe.

https://lemmy-federate.com/

It also makes it easier when you create a community, now it will automatically show up on most instances.

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[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 54 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Just FYI everyone, this spike is sort of a glitch and its quite obvious just from looking at how steep the curve is. It all comes from nodebb which is a forum software and i guess they switched on federation on 11.01.2026 which gave us this magical bump.

They are real users probably, but what i mean is that this wasnt a rush of new users, but just old (mostly inactive) users that were never considered part of the fediverse until now.

https://nodebb.fediverse.observer/dailystats

[–] Carrot@lemmy.today 8 points 1 month ago

Still increases footprint/grants more credibility to the Fediverse, which I think is a good thing. It just won't really impact the daily experience here

[–] recursive_recursion@piefed.ca 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

Recommend:

Avoid:

Lemmy.ml (Tankie fascist koolaid. Unless you enjoy being gaslit and manipulated similar to Trump and his fascist thugs, this should be avoided like the bubonic plague)
Lemmy.world (sorry guys but seriously please reconsider accepting literally everyone for users; it's crazy how much spam and nonsense is coming from your instance)

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

hexbear, lemmygrad as well. hexbear make themselves sound"cute" to hopefully trick people into engaging in thier instance, when in fact they are tankies.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago

Hexbear is openly communist, it doesn't "try to sound cute to trick people." That's genuinely the community, tons of queer communists.

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[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You may disagree with communists, but we are by no means fascists. Fascism is inherently tied to protecting private property and capitalism, communists oppose that and seek to collectivize production and distribution.

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[–] DonAntonioMagino@europe.pub 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I mainly dislike lemmy.world because it’s Americans owning the place like usual.

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[–] Flames5123@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago

Just a warning: Piefed has a lot of shady built in hidden karma. Like you posting “this” or a gif only detracts from your karma. They also block you from downvoting if you downvote more than you upvote. It’s not really free speech at all.

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[–] imetators@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 month ago (10 children)

As far as I understand, lemmy instances are sort of a community with communities inside. It seems that each isntance has their own like minded userbase. .world has basich mix of everyone due to popularity, .ml holds strong beliefs politically, blahaj.zone is more progressive in gender identity, piefed.social is more mainstream decentralized instance. And of course there are more I didn't mention.

I am on dbzer0 because I am into selfhosting and sailing the seas. It fits me well. Tied to one instance doesn't stop me from engaging on other instances except the ones I blacklisted.

Check the instances and their descriptions and find something that fits you.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago (5 children)

db0 and sh. are my viiiibbbbbee

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[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 15 points 1 month ago

Personally I’d really like to see more servers physically located in privacy and free-speech friendly places like Switzerland and Iceland (for example). I’m not sure why you’d want to have your social media hosted anywhere else.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I joined this one because the main one was defederating a whole bunch of pirate ones and that makes no goddamn sense. thanks 👍

mods will be like hey let's make it so our users can't access stuff. that makes sense. I bet that's what they want. they want to not have access to things. they think it's good

smart and federal

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago

.world is squeamish about upsetting corpos because they're the biggest instance.

[–] epicshepich@programming.dev 12 points 1 month ago

Even for things we're excited about, truncating the y-axis is never okay 😕

[–] WiseFirefighter7299@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

!main@sh.itjust.works they are very new-user friendly, diaspora: idfk its dead, mastodon: official instance, peertube: peertube.wtf with official app to do federation stuff

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[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 month ago (12 children)

Blahaj.zone we're chill AF here

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago (12 children)

I don't like that you can't downvote, though.

[–] Flames5123@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Exactly. I look at downvotes on articles as a kind of fact curator. If an article has 50/50, you know it’s gotta be wrong.

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[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 month ago

Just browse Join-Lemmy and pick an instance that sticks out and you like the vibe of, with good local communities and decent federation. The only one I truly recommend avoiding is Lemmy.world, due to its size and moderation on some larger communities.

[–] redrumBot@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I would recommend use https://join-lemmy.org/ it suggest a generic instance and also lets search specific instances.

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[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 10 points 1 month ago

https://lemmy.sdf.org/ has some pretty unique content, even from the normal fediverse. I like the users there. See !funhole@lemmy.sdf.org and !unix_surrealism@lemmy.sdf.org

When its up peertube.wtf is great for discovering peertube videos. I use it to find things to post on !peertube@lemmy.world

I like to spend my time on piefed. Its my favorite "threadiverse" software atm. I spent snd contributed code to lemmy for about a year but jumped over to piefed. Its fun and fedi interop was better at the time.

For everything else fediverse.party for fun software and instances!

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think the best thing is to choose one and hang around and if you like where you land then go forward but once you learn how to look them over and what makes them different then evaluate and decide on one and make a new account that becomes your main.

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[–] Lor@mander.xyz 9 points 1 month ago

One that is not blocked by a lot of other instances....

[–] guynamedzero@piefed.zeromedia.vip 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My own! I feel like I run it pretty well, I certainly trust myself with my data than others. But otherwise, id probably recommend lemmy.zip or piefed.social

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[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

For someone entirely new to this, please ELI5 why it matters?

Entirely at random I signed up at feddit.uk

Does it mean I'm walled off from specific content? Am I in a dead part of the fediverse? And how do I change if I am.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Okay, so it matters for a few reasons.

Instances have different rules. So you can banned by your own instances local admins for things you might not get banned for on other instances.
If you wanted to make your own community, you'd automatically be hosting it on feddit.uk, so that matters to a degree when it comes to the local culture there.
Instances have their own blocklists. So your instance might be blocking (defederating) another instance that has a lot of users. Or it might just as likely be blocked by another instance. This isn't the case for feddit.uk, which maintains wide federation.

Feddit.uk specifically is a UK based lemmy. If you look up the local communities, you can see that is the geographical/cultural focus.

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[–] Carrot@lemmy.today 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I live in the PNW. I picked an instance in the PNW. Sometimes I see local news, and often I read comments from people within a few hour drive. It's nice to have a small, local community here, while still having access to the rest of the world together. So I guess recommend picking the largest instance in your region if you don't have any other preferences.

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[–] ragingHungryPanda@piefed.keyboardvagabond.com 8 points 1 month ago

I'd like to plug the fediverse servers that I'm hosting for the traveller / digital nomad niche over at keyboard vagabond

https://piefed.keyboardvagabond.com/

https://mastodon.keyboardvagabond.com/

https://pixelfed.keyboardvagabond.com/

https://blog.keyboardvagabond.com/

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