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[–] GammaGames@beehaw.org 30 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca 8 points 2 months ago

Never seen the term apicalypse and just had to say it's fantastic.

That was my fediverse cohort too.

[–] GriffinClaw@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 months ago

Same. I could only reddit through Boost.

Typing this from Boost for Lemmy :)

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 28 points 2 months ago

Because I missed the niche that reddit filled and I wasn't willing to return to reddit or any other corporate, centralised social media/community platform.

[–] ieatpwns@lemmy.world 28 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Reddit killed third party apps

[–] ThePunnyMan@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 months ago

It wasn't just that. I used the first party app so the API changes didn't affect me. It was how bad they handled the whole situation that made me lose faith that reddit was going in a good direction. That thread "addressing" the changes and concerns was brutal.

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[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 20 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] lazynooblet@lazysoci.al 18 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Reddit killed third party apps and I refused to use their shit app. It all just stinks of enshitification. So I spun up my own instance of Lemmy and haven't looked back.

[–] greenbelt@lemy.lol 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You seem like a high initiative individual. Congrats. I lack technical sophistication to even buy a domain name lol. How much do you pay for lazysoci.al per year (the domain name)?

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[–] null@lemmy.org 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Reddit ban for a R1 violation.

Apparently if you say punching a nazi is a form of self-defense they'll say you're inciting violence.

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[–] Drinvictus@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 2 months ago

because centralized social media eventually leads to ads/monetization etc. your content becomes for profit

[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 12 points 2 months ago

Because fuck spezβ„’ and reddit is so large it's hard to find community

[–] arthur@lemmy.zip 10 points 2 months ago

Corporative social media pushed me out, ActivityPub seems a great solution to those problems.

Then Reddit and Communism

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I finally got banned from Reddit and by now they have rather effective methods to detect ban evasion.

[–] obamacares@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago

That is sooooo annoying! Like, ok ban my account. But ban ME for ever? Ridiculous. Sincerely hope Reddit dies

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[–] ptc075@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Reddit's bot detection bot banned me for being a bot. The irony was too much.

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[–] AnchoriteMagus@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

Because Reddit is a haven for power tripping white supremacists who ban any opinion they don't like.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I got perma banned from reddit.

I am not sure why. It could have been because I got 200+ downvotes for posting that Guy Ritchie’s Ministry of Ungentlemenly Warfare looked like a steaming pile of dog shit or because I posted that Pete Hegsbeth needs to die.

Anyway I deserved the Perma Ban.

The only thing I miss about reddit are the sports subs. Those were a lot more active than the ones on lemmy/fedverse.

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[–] frozenspinach@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 month ago

Just to get away from Reddit and help make the fediverse successful.

[–] Sherad@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Graduating from "leftist" Reddit, I'm afraid.

Gonna glaze the 'grad specifically - on the whole it's done wonders for my revolutionary optimism and mental health, which in turn has lead to me actually doing some organizing irl.

Finding places full of people who actually know their shit and aren't swept up into the lies of neoliberalism and capitalism is a major step up from feeling utterly alone and helpless in the imperial core surrounded by people who at times feel utterly alien and unreachable.

Basically just using this space to say thanks for existing, as well as thanks to such incredibly consistent and well-informed posters like yogthos, cfgaussian, cowbee, rainpizza and others for their constant analysis and discussions that have definitely patched up a lot of holes in my own understandings of leftist history and thought.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago

Thanks for the kind words, comrade! Glad you're here! 🫑

[–] m532@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 months ago

Someone linked to lemmygrad on r/latestagecapitalism. I looked at both lemmy and lemmygrad (this was pre-federation) and realized that the "hard-coded slur filter" was genius.

[–] zecg@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Because reddit shut its api access off and "rif is fun for reddit" stopped working, duh.

[–] stumu415@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Because I got perma banned from Reddit after making a comment that all these ICE losers will never get paid or will get their sign on bonus. And that after 3 years they will be back sucking immigrant cock behind the Wendy's. Apparently that is violation of rule 1 inciting violence. Which is total BS. Other people post much, much worse and actually death threats. Reddit definitely also bend the knee to the US authoritarian regime and any view other than nazisme is banned.

Anyway lemmy feels a much more positive place here except the formula 1 lemmy. That sub is so incredibly toxic.

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Same, broke R1 and the last breaking of it was rather vague link. I just upvoted a comment that made fun of R1 under a post showing child abuse. Turns out that goes under it as well.

[–] obamacares@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You got banned from Reddit for making an upvote? No freaking way

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[–] UnimportantHuman@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago

I just want to see less bots and find real community and conversations. I also love the concept of decentralized platforms. I feel like the Internet mostly isn't even real. I miss what it was like 15+ years ago.

[–] comfy@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago

I was already no longer posting on reddit through alternative front-ends since around 2018, because I disliked privacy issues with it. I was just lurking via alternate frontends (the precursors to Redlib, there were more before the API fiasco). I was already into the FOSS community and so I forget exactly how I came across Raddle and Lemmy (maybe through /r/piracy or /r/datahoarder, but could have been many other places), and Lemmy was far far far slower then, but when I landed on Lemmy I really wanted it to become a viable alternative to reddit.

[–] rossman@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 months ago

Not associating with as many bots.

[–] Mantzy81@aussie.zone 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Banned from Reddit for writing lyrics to my favourite Christmas song because it had a homophobic slur in it and mods don't understand when it was written, who it was written by/about/sung by whom, it's vulgarity in other countries culture and/or context - heaven forbid any of them get meatballs from a chip shop or buy cigarettes in the UK.

And then ban evasion during that time. I prefer the lack of bots and reposts (except the Reddit repost bots) here though.

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'd already heard of Mastodon and based on poking around there, I learned about Lemmy, so I explored it as a Reddit alternative. Initially, my early exposure to lemmy was mostly a curiosity thing.

Also during that time, my resentment and distaste for Reddit's policies and general culture was building up. The place had changed so much over the years, just slowly enough that it took awhile to notice that it was no longer the same place it was when I first arrived.

I ended up coming to Lemmy in the months ahead of the Reddit API fiasco, but would still peek over there from time to time. Then post API fiasco, I just stopped even peeking.

In those days, Lemmy was a largely KIND place, so that really helped the transition. The culture here was different from Reddit, and seemed much more positive and supportive at that time, so that made it easier to look past the flaws. It was a regular occurrence to see folks call out users who were being abusive or overly abrasive in their replies, and folks would often talk out or joke about their differences. It was a nice, refreshing change of pace most of the time.

That's almost all gone now or perhaps hidden on some private or unbeknownst to me server somewhere in the Fediverse. But for me, for now, I'm still here. I just had to adapt. Basically I mostly stopped reading replies to my comments and just block people I see being abusive to others, but this also means Lemmy is now a sad, dead echo of its not too distant past and more of an opportunity to fart into the winds of oblivion.

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[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago

Got sick of reddit morons, but increasingly they are moving over.

spez is a piece of shit

[–] 9skyguy0@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

As a better alternative to what I was using prior (Reddit and other stuff). Came to Lemmy.ml as it seemed like a good generalist option whose top categories include open source programs and technology, to which I've enjoyed reading further into.

Additionally, I didn't know Lemmygrad exists, however I'm super glad it does. I regularly browse it, and through doing so, I've corrected several misconceptions I had held prior, gotten even more insights into history, put together a reading list to finally delve deeper (which I need to keep reminding myself to start), and I've renewed efforts to try to find a way to organize.

[–] therugbychick@lemmy.nz 4 points 1 month ago

Trying to understand someone I adore who prefers Lemmy. Also, Reddit feels overrun with fake accounts and scammers.

[–] SaneMartigan@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

First set of accounts on reddit perma banned for discussing jiujitsu technique - inciting violence.
Second set of accounts on reddit perma banned for recommending a lady with a stalker problem use her American freedom and get a gun for home defense - You know what you did type response.

I was already on Lemmy when my subs shut down to protest the API blackout.

[–] 56_@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago

Saw a post on r/rust.

[–] darkenergy@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago

Reddit destroying third party apps was the last straw for me. So, I hopped on kbin and some Lemmy instances. Reddit continues to degrade, and Reddit mods are annoying.

RIP Aaron Swartz (Reddit removed him as a founder).

[–] obinice@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

I wanted to keep using Boost, and they banned third party applications from Reddit.

Especially annoying given that their own application was awful and at times unusable with whole features completely missing.

[–] ClassIsOver@hexbear.net 3 points 2 months ago

I got really sick of rational thought being swept aside to maintain a status quo on Reddit, and looked for alternatives. All of the non-political subs weren't worth staying.

[–] greyscale@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Got banned from reddit for saying that Peter Thiel should be turned into soup 3 times.

[–] greenbelt@lemy.lol 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[–] Freakazoid@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

To escape reddit and to help people if I can.

[–] 64bithero@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

The sex , drugs and rock n roll !

Discovered way to late there was a decentralized version of Reddit and I had to join

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago

I'm looking at other people's reasons for reddit bans and i kinda understand why they were. I dont agree with them, and most of them are stupid and heavy handed and are mean-spirited applications of the letter of a rule while blatantly ignoring the meaning, but they are technically justifiable.

I got banned for saying Genji mains suck.

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