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Is this your first day on earth? Literally every single man you have ever met has a drop of piss in their underwear.
The men I sleep with wipe their dicks to minimize the amount of piss that they're walking around in all day AND they wash their hands.
In my youth, there were definitely guys that gave me UTIs and BV because they had absolutely no regard for the health of their partners. They were disgusting and selfish.
If you want to continue to be one of those types of guys, again, I'm not fucking stopping you. I'm just disgusted by you.
No they didn't lmao.
If you think I haven't seen my husband piss and vice versa, I don't know what to tell you.
When you live with someone, you become very aware of their bathroom and hygiene habits.
On top of all that, it becomes really clear once clothes come off whether a guy wipes and washes or not.
Hey, if your husband wipes his pee hole after pissing, power to him. He is in the extreme minority of men though. Similarly, if had been giving infections to my wife all these years (or she to me), we would have noticed. I don't even need clothes to come off before I can smell whether someone washes or not. Probably why showers are so popular.
Yeah just because something doesn't happen to you or your wife, it never happens at all.
And just because your husband wipes his dick after pissing doesn't mean anyone else does.
He's not the only man I've slept with lol
How many men have you slept with?
And I'm telling you, they didn't wipe their dicks. I don't need to have slept with any men to know that none of them wipe their dicks after pissing with any sort of regularity. How many times have you lined up at a busy bank of urinals? Amazingly, they never have toilet paper in them.
I'm so glad to have met the representative for all men! Wow, it's such an honor to meet the single man who knows every single man in existence!
AND your wife is representative of all women, too! Gee whiz, so cool!!
And just to have the final word here - It is gross to not wash your hands after pissing and shitting.
You've taken a stupid position (that penis-havers should wipe after peeing) and you won't climb down from it.
No, my position is that one's penis doesn't stay clean after showering, so one should wash their hands after pissing regardless of how clean one thinks their penis is through the day.
Oh, cuz I agree with that. I thought you were also saying that it's disgusting, and unusual to not wipe the dick after pissing.
I personally think it's gross to not wipe, but that's my own personal opinion. If you're not sleeping with me, I don't care how gross you are in your personal life.
My whole fucking point was that the original commenter should be washing his hands after pissing because his penis doesn't stay clean all day after he showers.
Fine.
Are you this exhausting to your wife as well? Lol geez man. It was like pulling teeth to get you to understand my original comment.
Cmon this was a two way street. If I didn't understand your original point, it may have been because of everything you said subsequently. I think it was pretty clear what I was taking issue with.
I repeated my point about his underwear and penis not staying clean through the day because of piss multiple times in multiple ways, dude.
And I never said anything about not washing your hands except to agree with you that one should.
Pardon?
This was in response to you claiming I "want pissy underwear", which goes back to what I was saying about your point being unclear. This is what I have the problem with. Characterizing a normal situation around normal bodily functions as abnormal and disgusting. I believe you can relate, as a woman. I take that as gas lighting, and I'm offended by it.
That wasn't me.
This is the actual comment you replied to, but regardless, washing your hands after handling your dick is important because your underwear are pissy.
Edit:: ooooh how DARE YOU compare menstruating with piss. wtf.
It is disgusting to not wipe after pissing. You're allowing excess piss to remain on your penis and get soaked into your underwear.
Women use products and wipe and wash our hands when dealing with periods. We don't just free bleed into our underwear and make others deal with it later and argue how it's totally normal to bleed through our underwear and pants everywhere.
Even as a trans woman who has (obviously) never had a period in her life, I physically cringed when the person you replied to made that comparison. Holy shit. And while we're at it, wipe your fucking dick. Courtesy shake doesn't cut it.