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Pardon?
This was in response to you claiming I "want pissy underwear", which goes back to what I was saying about your point being unclear. This is what I have the problem with. Characterizing a normal situation around normal bodily functions as abnormal and disgusting. I believe you can relate, as a woman. I take that as gas lighting, and I'm offended by it.
That wasn't me.
This is the actual comment you replied to, but regardless, washing your hands after handling your dick is important because your underwear are pissy.
Edit:: ooooh how DARE YOU compare menstruating with piss. wtf.
It is disgusting to not wipe after pissing. You're allowing excess piss to remain on your penis and get soaked into your underwear.
Women use products and wipe and wash our hands when dealing with periods. We don't just free bleed into our underwear and make others deal with it later and argue how it's totally normal to bleed through our underwear and pants everywhere.
Even as a trans woman who has (obviously) never had a period in her life, I physically cringed when the person you replied to made that comparison. Holy shit. And while we're at it, wipe your fucking dick. Courtesy shake doesn't cut it.