Is that a weird thing for a woman to do?
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How dare you?!?!
I wish we could choose it more often tbh
Me too. Horizon zero dawn was one of my favorite female ones.
Eh, depends on the game. I look at both and pick whichever one looks or sounds fun. Last few games I was a whole team of women in turn based games. Current game I'm a lone wolf male. Sometimes I find it funny making the cutest girl and whomping on enemies, othertimes I make an ugly old lady or man. Sometimes I make them look like me, or my wife, or one of my kids. Litterally depends all on my mood and whimsy at the time.
Fellow dad here that does the exact same thing. I wish I could add anything useful to this but you've already so eloquently explained it. Thank you for that.
My wife still teases me for how I play stardew valley. I was in a grumpy old man "get off my lawn" mood when I made my character. Played through it and hated how completing quests bumped up your reputation. So, I made extra effort to give people trash gifts so they liked me less.
My character fishes, farms, explores caves, and is drunk whenever he's in town, and liberally gives out trash to everyone that he crosses. Everyone hates him and that's exactly how he wants it.
He since retired to the island as he finds the lack of people peaceful.
i like dressing up girls :3
You got me, as my defence women characters often have better clothing options, hairstyles options, VA, etc. Lets a man play dress up in peace 😂
Literally why my version of "the boss" from ~~SR 2~~ Saints Row is canonically trans.
"Let me play dress up with this mexican looking fat avatar that looks like me"... ooooor "let me make a sexy looking busty lady and put her in all kinds of cool outfits"
🤔
yeah, I should have just ignored the character customisation aspect entirely and stayed looking like a schlub in game just to prove to myself that I'm a man.
I also would rather play more games written for a female protagonist. 3 decades of male player characters is plenty.
I have something similar watching movies/shows with women protagonists that are meant for women audiences. Tired of watching guy main characters ig, still totally cis tho!
By the time someone says "still cis tho," they're already cooked
Only when there models are hot oof I’ve never made a female dwarf character but those Korean boob sliders lol
I might just be a perv
Got one comment when I was younger from my girlfriend about how I never played a woman in games and now I almost always do
If I’m going to spend the next 300 hours staring at a character’s ass, I’m picking one I actually want to look at.
women are prettier damn it! and i want my character to be pretty!! >:(

Who are you and how did you become psychic
I'm TotallynotJessica, an ephemeral being who is always watching and never seen :)
Well of course? What else should I be playing as if not? A dinosaur? Don't be silly! Who would play as a dinosaur in a videogame?
nervous laugh

I remember starting Genshin and given identical abilities, I preferred to look at a female character for the first few hours. I don't project myself into games, I always feel like I'm playing the characters as themselves.
Same. First person game I don’t care, but third person I want to look at a lady.
Back in the runescape days, I used to get tons of free shit by being a girl. When they stopped gifting, I'd convince them to come to the wild and kill them for the rest of their shit
Yes, because I enjoy looking at women more
Always have, always will. Smaller Character models take up less space in 3rd person games and are harder to see in pvp.
Also cake.
In see a dude every day in the mirror. Let me have fun and see something different in videogames
Yeah... SO!?
I'm glad you enjoy it too!
If they won't let me make a twinky guy then yeah (mainly an issue in Western titles)
I sure do:

I just go with whatever looks better. Or if there’s total customization, I imagine a backstory and go with whatever fits the backstory.
I’d guess my overall rates are something like 65% male, 35% female.
Ever since questioning my identity I began playing girls more and enjoying character creation for once. Before, I always just hit random and entered said game.
Yes I want to become queen of all Calradia and destroy those pesky Rhodoks once and for all!
The Matrix character named Switch had it correct the whole time 🙌
Real heads remember the studio ruining switch's original story...
Depends on what character I'm wanting to develop at the time, but yeah, a lot of my oc's are women (although not necessarily female). I like to use the game as inspiration for lore. When I played cyberpunk 2077, I already had a character named V who's a cyborg rabbit girl, so it was close enough to perfect.
and fem V's voice actor just does a better job tbh
I only did it once. I'd heard that the male version of the character had terrible voice acting.
