The point is that eliminating money doesn't eliminate private (or corporate) ownership of the land and the means of production. It just makes it impossible to fairly compensate the laborers who generate value from those things.
That's absolutely true, abolishing money isn't a solution on it's own, it's part of a larger sea change in structuring a socialist economy. I'm not sure that we'll be able to come to an agreement on the origins of money, but I appreciate your insights about the concept. There's a lot more anthropological research necessary to analyze the origins of the concept. I'm open to continuing this aspect of the conversation, but I feel like we'll end up continually circling around each other with various historical analyses. While that is fun to do, unfortunately I can't talk about history all day. I'm forced to earn money instead.
the main issue I see is that it ignores the division of labor.
Yes that is a flaw, and unfortunately it's a common one with ideas for anarchist communities. I don't have all the answers and I'll certainly never see this in my lifetime, but I think there are various ways to counteract that problem and I don't think it's as big of a problem as most people tend to view it. Housing is a constant need, but we don't need to be constantly building houses. Some people will have to manage the crops without rotating to other work, but with consistent help from the community, their workload is significantly reduced.
I think people will fill societal roles if we emphasize that society only works when we all pitch in together. We can encourage people to find something that interests them throughout their education, and then show that their work is valuable by celebrating their work in some manner. People want their work to be valued. We should allow people to find the work that fulfills them without coercion.
How do you implement that level of choice and autonomy in a moneyless society? How do you prevent people from hoarding more than they need?
Well, that's the point of the libraries and food banks. The community will have to mutually agree upon standards for distribution, but think about libraries and grocery stores now. At a library, you check out a book for a specific amount of time and then you need to return it. Why wouldn't this scale to other goods? For things like beds, the check out time could be marked as indefinite by the library and you can't check out another one until you return the one you have or can prove that you need another one. When you go to the food bank, they document how much food you've taken and prevent you from taking more than you need, but they don't decide what you're allowed to get. I'll admit that I've spent far more time thinking about durable goods, so the mechanisms of the food bank aren't anywhere near as fleshed out.
On top of that, what about the passion projects?
I think people will always seek to fulfill their passions. Look at Wikipedia. Look at Linux and other open source projects. Look at art. All of these things exist because of pure, unbridled passion from people over the years. I don't think that will ever go away. Money may have been a benefit for doing these things, but it was very clearly never the goal.
While I have ideas on how these things should function, ultimately it will be a democratic decision on how these institutions function. I believe that people are inherently good. If that's utopian, then fine by me. I think we should have a vision for our ideal future and strive for it, even if we fall short.
I think we can come away from this discussion with an agreement that modern capitalist society is broken, harming the working class, and destroying our future. I think we both implicitly know that there is something better than our current system. We just disagree on what that better society would look like. And that disagreement is ok.
I'm glad to have had this conversation with you. Ideas can only grow and improve if they are challenged, and I've never really had a discussion about these thoughts and ideas with another informed person before.