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"European restaurants pay staff like any other profession and workers don’t rely on tips, so customers assume they’ve already paid for service".
Europeans are right on this one. The more years go by, the more I find tipping to be ridiculous. Tell me upfront what you expect, then I'll choose where to eat. Managers must adapt to customers, not us do their minimum wage employment practice.
Greetings from Europe, we're not baffled. We just don't play your game. Start paying your workers properly.
We come from nations where staff get paid at least the minimum wage and don't rely on tips to make it up to that.
Yea, because tipping is intended to be optional.
The mere fact of trying to pressure or force the tipping will make sure I regard the service as not tip worthy.
#PAY YOUR FUCKING STAFF
Maybe if the US paid a decent minimum wage...
Imagine the price being.. You know.. The price...
It's not "culture" it's unfettered capitalism. Make your staff beg your customers for their wage instead of paying it yourself, great for bosses.
lmao NY Post getting pissy over what they call barbarians not leaving tips.
Ignoring the reality the unwritten rule of tipping for exceptional service was taken over by the restaurants and turned the gesture into a formality serving the owners, and the waiters now get gypped below minimum wage.
Oh what ever shall we do? The cash registers are bursting with cash due to the influx of visitors... but they're not tipping the servers.
I see absolutely no way that employers could make the situation fairer for servers, even if it were only for the duration of the event.
Gosh, if only there were some way!
I visited the US 3 years ago and tipping was a bloody pain in the bum. It added probably 20min to our meal as the waiters took a while to get change. Further, asking every 15 minutes how our meal was going was quite exhausting; mainly because we knew it was performative for more tips. We tipped 20% each time but it's really, really frustrating not knowing the price up front.
Back home, I'm used to paying up front and then leaving as soon as we're done. Waiters leave you alone, unless you're a regular, and ask you how the meal was at the till if you pay after.
Fck the NY Post! It is a tRumpian rag not worthy of fishwrap.
~~fighting back~~ doubling down on near slavery conditions when confronted with their bullshit
FTFY
Fuck everything about tipping, tipping must be prohibited by law
Should we pay an actual wage?
NO! ITS EVERYONE ELSE WHO ARE WRONG!
Fuck american tipping culture… Pay your staff fair…
“Tipflation” is the worst part. It’s annoying as hell when staff tell you the terminal or kiosk is going to “ask you a question” and the fucking thing asks for a tip while they’re staring right at you. It’s gaslighting people into questioning whether to tip for something that typically wouldn’t require a tip, and whether you should tip to avoid having your food spat on, etc. Then the suggested tip percentages are often inflated and if you want to tip lower, you have to fumble around with the “other” button while they continue to stare. I’d say vote with your wallet, but every place does this now.
I’ve lived here all my life, and I’m not always sure when I’m supposed to tip or not, so not sure how anyone visiting from a country with a more rational system is expected to understand our broken system here.