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I understand that some of the criticism comes from conservatives but the sentiment seems to extend far beyond thst. Of course, I understand it when it's forced or when someone only does it to survive against their will. But if people genuinely want to do it, why do people hate on them?

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 1 points 21 minutes ago

If there was a basic income there would be a lot less people in the porn industry. There still would be people in the porn industry though because those ones enjoy the work.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Anyone who works a job they hate for a boss they hate, for not enough money, is the same as any prostitute. They should stop being so judgemental.

[–] cy_narrator@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 37 minutes ago* (last edited 36 minutes ago)

Wise words master

[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 18 points 4 hours ago

Because christianity taught them that sex is bad.

[–] msspwn@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 hours ago

Its the bots and getting it shoved down your throat. on every app with a non neglable user base you will see countless bots/grifters swarm popular posts.

its kinda like the furry comunity. The vocal minority destroyes the public image

[–] rosco385@lemmy.wtf 3 points 6 hours ago

Sex work is work.If someone hates on a sex workers, me thinks they doth protest too much.

[–] AnnaFrankfurter@lemmy.ml 2 points 7 hours ago

I don't I love their work \s

[–] JillyB@beehaw.org 5 points 11 hours ago

Personally, I think influencer/hustle culture, parasocial relations, personal "brands" are a rot on society coming from the worst parts of capitalism. The influencer benefits from alienation and I think that's wrong. I don't think an OF model is any worse than any other influencer. I also think a lot of OF models didn't feel they had many options when they started. But the really successful ones could get out or be less parasocial or something.

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

people think it's easy money and get jealous

and people like that never realize just how much work actually goes into it (speaking from personal experience here)

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 6 points 15 hours ago

This, it’s purely moralistic fart sniffing. That and folks who can’t control themselves and blame the performers for being too tempting.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 6 points 14 hours ago

I don't like how it's spammed around, otherwise I wouldn't care about it.

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 18 hours ago

ITT: misogyny

[–] GiorgioPerlasca@lemmy.ml 8 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Sex workers face mortality rates from overdose that dwarf the general population. We're talking about an external-cause mortality risk roughly 8-12 times higher for these marginalized groups. The direct link is undeniable: studies show a significant history of substance dependence (100% in one cohort) with opioids involved in ~90% of those fatal events. It's crucial to note these are likely "conservative estimates" because many records don't capture sex work status.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12405828/

The driving factor isn't the work itself, but the trauma surrounding it. You see a high burden of PTSD, anxiety, and depression that predates or coincides with substance use. For many, the drug use, especially "polysubstance" mixing of opioids and benzos, is a form of self-medication to numb the violence and stigma

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/acps.13559

The overdose is often a direct consequence of criminalization and policing. Research shows that when police target sex workers or create barriers to safe consumption sites, the odds of a fatal overdose more than double (AOR 2.15)

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0955395922003668?fr=RR-2&ref=pdf_download&rr=9d06bca97a56066e

[–] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I dated a cam girl for a while, (insert the obligatory “it’s not dating if you’re paying her lul” joke here), and she smoked a quarter per day. It was the only way she could tolerate the work.

Given, she was damned good at her job. She made more in 4 hours of streaming than my roommate and I made in a week combined. She literally made enough to cover her rent and bills in like three or four hours of work. So she could definitely afford to smoke that much, because basically everything after that first stream was disposable income for her. But she would get done with her stream and immediately hit a bowl to try and forget the work. And she’d basically be stoned until her next stream was scheduled to start.

If she had ever graduated to harder drugs, she 100% would have OD’ed. However, it’s also a little disingenuous to compare streamers/OnlyFans models with in-person sex workers. There’s a level of compartmentalization that online sex work creates. It’s definitely still reliant on building a parasocial relationship, but you’re not actually sleeping with Johns in person. Unless you’re doxxed, there’s very little personal risk involved. But with in-person sex work, all of that is inverted. Online sex work is obviously still sex work, but it’s definitely a different type of sex work.

It’s like comparing retail work with an Amazon warehouse. Both jobs suck in their own way, and they’re both fulfilling the same basic purpose of getting products to customers. But very few people would say that they’re the same job, and the stressors associated with each are unique.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 hours ago

While yes, I agree that OnlyFans is sex work, I disagree with lumping the general "prostitute" from the street/brothel with the onlyfans/sex cam worker.

The remote nature keeps unsavory folk away by default (under the assumption that they arent doxxed) while sex work in person is, well, in person.

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