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[–] pulsewidth@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Entire poster could be summarised as: treat other people with respect and empathy.

[–] Havatra@lemmy.zip 0 points 7 months ago

That's a bit of the problem these days though; younger generations are not taught what concrete actions are deemed respectful. Furthermore it's viewed as a personal inconvenience for the sake of strangers.

"Common sense is not that common."

[–] xxce2AAb@feddit.dk 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Hold the door if someone is right behind you.

Unless you're entering a secure location, in which case don't.

[–] howrar@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

My work place has to keep sending out emails to remind everyone to not hold the door open for people tailing them.

[–] xxce2AAb@feddit.dk 0 points 7 months ago

That's... most unfortunate. I've yet to work in any place where that wouldn't have been grounds for immediate dismissal.

[–] Havatra@lemmy.zip 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Nice post! I don't know how many are or aren't taught these things, as I feel like I was taught most of these myself. I do have some opinions though:

  • Tipping I feel like is a thing very pertained to the US, and shouldn't be considered "good etiquette", but rather altruistic. I.e. no pressure to give tips. Same with the car, but it should still be returned "in an equal or better condition" if possible.
    Etiquette is not dependent on economic power.
  • Being loud in general is bad etiquette/uncivilized, so the three about loud music, speakerphone, and loudness in quiet public places could be a single entry.
  • Other duplicates: "let others exit first" and "clean up".
  • The coughing shows a graphic of holding the hand in front of the mouth, which should instead be the elbow because of simple hygiene.
  • The part about commenting on someone's food is a bit weird, as it could be extended to "don't share your opinion about my choices unless I ask". Thoughts?
  • I really like the modern inclusion of putting away your phone during conversations!
  • Things that could be added:
    • Value others' time; be on time, and don't be in the way of those with little time.
    • Do the small things yourself, regardless of whose responsibility it is (like pick up something from the floor).
    • Give space when there is space. E.g. walking on the sidewalk, shopping cart in aisle, personal space in the queue, etc.
[–] howrar@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Commenting on other people's food is very common around here. Maybe it's more appropriate to say "don't content negatively on other people's food"? Or better yet, "don't comment negatively on anything unprompted".

[–] calliope@retrolemmy.com 0 points 7 months ago

It is so general on that one!

“Hey that food looks good”
“Don’t tell me how my food looks!”

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[–] bookmeat@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

But... It's not trash. It's useful information for some people.

Trashing this post just because it's AI doesn't make you a better person.

[–] Droechai@piefed.blahaj.zone 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Im pretty sure a lot of these are taught by parents and cultural osmosis, at least where I live.

Edit: The pandemic definately tried to teach people to cover their face holes while sneezing or coughing

[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 0 points 7 months ago (4 children)

No one taught you this? Even if nobody sits you down for a lesson, you are taught by example by the people around you when you grow up.

Also, the tipping and keeping doors open for people behind you are not universally applicable. In large swaths of Asia you'll be met by ire or confusion respectively. So maybe this is missing a generated image for being culturally sensitive.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] jdr@lemmy.ml 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I wish people would stop reminding me of my existence

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 0 points 7 months ago

As a trans autistic person, same.

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[–] Sunshine@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago (3 children)

You missed one: don't use ai to generate images.

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 0 points 7 months ago

He missed a few more as well.

  • don’t command people what to do, instead ask them politely
  • don’t yuck other people’s yum
[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 7 months ago

Just report and block the guy

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[–] Cassa@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Would change the "cover your mouth" the presumedly ai generated image shows someone using their hand - which is not cool.

cough into your elbow so you don't spread germs.

[–] Sergio@piefed.social 0 points 7 months ago

Well, it's AI, so they're probably using someone else's hand.

[–] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 0 points 7 months ago

Why is there a separate one for exiting an elevator when there's on for exiting rooms below? Same principle

[–] skeezix@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago

I live in a country where tipping isn’t a thing, and nobody here wants it to be a thing. And American tourists come over and can’t comprehend not tipping so they tip anyway because they think we’re just being mean to each other and that we all want tipping to be a thing.

[–] LyingCake@feddit.org 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Hey ooli, I did not like your post. What was your reasoning when you decided to make it?

I'd be sincerely interested in the (thought) process.

[–] ooli3@sopuli.xyz 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Hey, why as of february 26 didnt you post anything on the site in 2 years of presence?

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[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 0 points 7 months ago

"no one" teaches you to sneeze in the elbow?? What do you teach kids at all then?

[–] k0e3@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago

Your parents failed you if they didn't teach at least half of these, Christ.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

If no one taught you a good majority of these: What the hell did your parents teach you?

[–] firkin_slang_whanger@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Please don't cover your mouth when you cough with your hands. Please don't.

[–] wabasso@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Just to clarify, the suggestion here is to use the crook of your elbow.

[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago

Like Dracula!

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[–] 7uWqKj@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

This is ragebait. Of course everyone has been taught all of these.

[–] endless_nameless@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago

If this induced rage in you, seek therapy my man. Also, if you'd ever spent any significant time around other people you'd know how often these simple etiquette rules are broken.

[–] Rusty@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] TehBamski@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Are you claiming this posted content to be AI generated or that we should 'Fuck AI slop' as a etiquette?

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[–] IntriguedIceberg@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (3 children)

I see a lot of comments dismissing the information because of it use of AI for the graphics. Would it have been received better if the post was simply a list of bullet points? I couldn't do graphics if my life depended on it, but I still feel this presentation is easier to digest and process than it'd be if it was plain text, so I'd probably go the same route of using AI to better convey what I'm trying to.

[–] MrQuallzin@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Do you think the only choices are AI art or not?

Whoever "made" this could have easily used the plethora of media freely available to them, pre-made by human artists, for each point in this. Clipart is decades old.

Or they could absolutely ditch the artwork and choose a different way to present this! The de-google guides that always pop up rarely have images. It's all simple shapes that are easy to read and look at.

There is absolutely zero need for AI here.

I couldn't do graphics if my life depended on it

Yes you can, you just don't want to put in the effort. Get drawing.

[–] IntriguedIceberg@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

So if I'm understanding correctly, the vox populi is that any AI-generated image is automatically bad/slop/misuse? Are we satanizing AI now?

[–] MrQuallzin@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] IntriguedIceberg@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (3 children)

That seems a very narrow and binary perspective. There's no room for nuance, it's simply "AI is bad and we won't talk further about it".

[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

AI is being forced into EVERYONE'S lives, whether we want it or not, and to make that happen; land and ecosystems are being destroyed, people's lives are being upended, resources are being made more expensive and less obtainable for everyday people, people's creations are being stolen and morphed into this machine that erases any nuance, self-expression, or human connection, while disconnecting people that enjoy art from those that pour their heart and soul into creating it.

AI IS bad, and no that fact is not up for discussion/debate. Every use of AI is detrimental to human expression and connection, while further harming the world/environment we all exist in. We've done enough harm as a species.

[–] IntriguedIceberg@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (3 children)

But then we have a problem with AI's process, not the underlying technology. What I mean to say is, if I were to train and run my own model in an isolated local computer, using ethically sourced* training material, then would it still be bad? Like, are we mad at the means needed to make the technology work or simply at the technology? Because if it's the former, then we can do something about it. Agriculture is a hell of a technology, but there are very detrimental ways to apply it.

*Let's gloss over what ethically sourced really means for the sake of discussion.

[–] MrQuallzin@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

You can't train your own though. You can't make your own AI that knows what a cat or Picasso is without it using works that are not yours. You'd never be able to tell it to write you a novel because it wouldn't have any to work with.

[–] IntriguedIceberg@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

But if I write a novel, am I not also taking into account every novel I've ever read? Can you draw something without first looking at other drawings?

[–] MrQuallzin@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

AI is not sentient and cannot learn or read. It regurgitates a "best guess" and knows nothing. If you use drawing tools to make shapes in Paint, congratulations! You made art, not the computer. If you write the shittiest fanfic in the world, YOU made it, YOU adapted your experiences into your own work.

AI does not and never will do it. Stop defending it.

[–] IntriguedIceberg@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

You moved the goal post. I thought the problem was using other things as references for the creation process.

[–] MrQuallzin@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Why are you fighting so hard to defend AI slop? There was never an issue with anyone using references. The issue is stealing and regurgitating other people's works and destroying the environment in the process. I'm sorry if that is too advanced for you, as I'm not the first to tell you this.

[–] IntriguedIceberg@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

When the ad hominem attacks start, it's time to drop it. Than you for the civil discussion while it lasted.

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[–] lotmo@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

From the perspective of art, explain to me how it can start as good from the get go or a benefit that's not just I can be lazy? It's built on theft of countless artists let alone the overall waste it produces.

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[–] MrQuallzin@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Your question was specific to AI images, not AI in general. There's plenty of nuance to be had with AI, but art is one thing it should never do.

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[–] GuyIncognito@lemmy.ca 0 points 7 months ago

Don't shit on the floor, and if you do, make sure to clean it up. #lifehacks

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