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[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yesterday I was falling asleep in the waiting room. Came home completely exhausted and slept. The glands are really swollen in my neck and under my arm so either Iโ€™m sick or have a quietly simmering infection.

In the (daylight) morning Iโ€™m just going to shove everything into the other room and do a quick sweep. Crack the door for some fresh air, put dishes to soak in hot soapy water, change bedding. Clean litterboxes.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

lots of hugs, just do what you can and rest

and tomorrow see if you can home help from the council or state gov

[โ€“] bacon@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Beep Beep ๐Ÿšš
๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐ŸŠ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿˆ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ‡๐Ÿ‰๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฅญ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅฅ๐Ÿฅฆ๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿซ›๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ…๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅฌ๐Ÿฅ’๐ŸŒฝ๐Ÿฅ•๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿซš๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿง…๐Ÿฅฏ๐Ÿž๐Ÿฅ–๐Ÿฅจ๐Ÿง€๐Ÿง‡๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿงˆ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿฅš๐Ÿฅ“๐Ÿฅฉ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿซ“๐Ÿ•๐ŸŸ๐Ÿ”๐ŸŒญ๐Ÿฅ™๐Ÿง†๐ŸŒฎ๐ŸŒฏ๐Ÿฅ—๐Ÿฒ๐Ÿœ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅ˜๐Ÿ›๐Ÿฃ๐Ÿฑ๐ŸฅŸ๐Ÿฆช๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿš๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ ๐Ÿค๐Ÿชผ๐Ÿฆ€๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿฅฎ๐Ÿข๐Ÿก๐Ÿง๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿง๐Ÿฅง๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿจ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅœ๐ŸŒฐ๐Ÿช๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฅ›โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿต๐Ÿบ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿฅค๐Ÿง‹๐Ÿงƒ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿท๐Ÿฅƒ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿน๐Ÿง‰๐Ÿ”‹

[โ€“] bacon@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@RustyRaven@aussie.zone โ˜•๏ธ๐ŸซŽโ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿฐโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿซ˜๐Ÿจโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธ

[โ€“] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Perfection thank you. This is definitely the way to get the day off to a good start.

[โ€“] Force_majeure123@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Same as big dawg RRaven please

[โ€“] bacon@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

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[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

YarraByte has inspired me... may I please have some cake and coffee?

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Patient is a bit wobbly but doing ok!

[โ€“] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (13 children)

If you got sent this before an interview for a low paying role, what would you think:

โ€œJust a quick heads-up โ€“ this role will report directly to Mark Wakeling our new Victorian Call Centre Manager and myself, so I thought Iโ€™d give you a quick intro before we chat.

Iโ€™m a proud father of two beautiful girls (ages 2 and 5), originally from Sydney, and have spent the last 20 years leading high-performing sales teams. I bought my first property at 21, and while Iโ€™m not a micromanager, I do have high standards. Iโ€™m naturally competitive (ex-athlete mindset!) and love surrounding myself with people who are driven to be the best โ€“ and I expect the same from my team.โ€

Honestly curious what you guys think working under this person would be like.

[โ€“] Eagle@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd be running far far away, slowly as I'm not an athlete. Not saying I'm not very good at what I do, and I am driven but he sounds like a flog.

Thanks for the perspective. I thought it was just me. The house at 21 thing sounds like someone born on third base who thinks he hit a home run.

[โ€“] MeanElevator@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Person sounds completely insufferable and probably narcissistic. They would be 100% a micromanager who look at long (unpaid) hours as a badge of honour.

His family situation, property achievements and ex-athlete status are completely unrelated to work but they make it part of their personality.

At the start he'd all friendly and cheery, give it a few weeks and the nightmare would start.

Also, he seems like the type who would call people 'champ' and mean it.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

His family situation, property achievements and ex-athlete status are completely unrelated to work but they make it part of their personality.

That's most likely a lie.

[โ€“] MeanElevator@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

See, I don't think it is. I think they're the only things he sees as achievements. Ex-athlete could mean he played something at a high-ish level but not professionally. The house at 21 is very achievable when parents get involved. Have relatives in similar situations.

Boiling down your entire work persona into these 3 things, is pretty sad.

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[โ€“] Catfish@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Run. They have a huge ego about stuff that has nothing to do with work. You'll have no privacy and be treated like a slave.

[โ€“] bacon@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Email back to cancel the interview.

[โ€“] Pilk@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Would love to know what he believes separates his management style from that of a micromanager. Asked directly, I don't think he'd have an answer.

A high performance manager would be sitting in on that interview, too. I bet he's got more important things to do.

I suspect this is some kind of ploy to filter out people who can detect he's a dickhead.

Also, you'd have two people to report to? Does not sound fun.

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

I physically recoiled reading that. I'd cancel so fast.

He's gonna ask you what you got up to every single weekend because we're like a family here.

[โ€“] SituationCake@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Run. Say you have a better offer or something, do not mention the โ€˜some guyโ€™, as your reason, because you donโ€™t want to give HR a heads up to remove it. Best leave it there for other people to be warned too.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

I doubt there is a HR , this is a two bit operation that runs on the smell of an oily rag, expects employees to work for finger traps and waffle parties, don't expect your legal entitlements.

[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

I find it very weird they're so willing to share things like this over email ahead of an interview. It wouldn't make me enthused to work for the company or under this guy

[โ€“] tone212_@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Why are the children relevant? Why is the property at 21 relevant? Honestly a completely tone deaf thing to send to a candidate.

[โ€“] SaneMartigan@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That level of entitlement sets off my old bouncer habit of keeping an eye on cokey sales guys who were the type to get a girl drunk. They'd be a shit of a person who thought they could do no wrong. I'd still take the interview as practice but take it knowing they've likely already failed from your side. Even call the guy out on his shit saying that all nice for him but not how you work.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Your workplace is not a family situation and your job is not a competition.

These are giant red flags.

Do not go , or go just to see what these potential abusers are like.

[โ€“] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Geez I'd be worried about that.

Personally I'd go just to see how up himself the dude is lol (probably not good advice).

[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I ordered that hairdryer 2-3 weeks ago and no idea where it is.

It says the seller sent it, but itโ€™s untracked and hasnโ€™t shown up yet as sent on the progress bar. I chose for it to be sent to a local business for collection so itโ€™s not likely to have been stolen.

[โ€“] Force_majeure123@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (4 children)

9am work starts may even be worse than my late shifts that start at 1145... Always packed trams is really bothersome to me

[โ€“] melbourne_wanderer@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

thankfully I basically set my own office hours on days I'm in. Usually at my desk by 7, leave at 2. Avoid most commuters that way (even when I'm on my bike!)

[โ€“] MeanElevator@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Same!!! In office 7-ish, but I stay till around 4. Bosses are noticing the extra effort and I'm getting some concessions.

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My favourite shift is 8-4, but I don't get enough of those ๐Ÿ˜ญ

[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Starting at a normal time is the worst. I can do the drive to work in less than half an hour and even home again if I leave early. The worst part of it is getting up

[โ€“] MeanElevator@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I start early and finish early. Some of my coworkers hate it, but we have no set hours.

[โ€“] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I start early and finish late. But 12 hour days when working equal more days with no work at all, so I think it's worth it.

A lot of people have very rigid thought patterns and can't cope with anyone doing something different. So they will decide you are lazy because you "finish early" while ignoring that you started early too. Or they berate people for "sleeping in" and ignore they worked late at night, etc. It's a constant problem for shift workers because these sorts of people can't comprehend that when you work night shifts the day is not a "day off" that is free to do things. I also get people that think because I work a lower number of days I am part time, they can't comprehend that I'm actually working a 42 hour week.

[โ€“] MeanElevator@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I judge people by the quality of their work, not the time spent at a desk.

We have arrangements at work (with my team) that accommodate different work patters. We have due dates and a volume of work to get through.

Meetings are between 10-3 (mostly), and we carry on.

Works well for the most part.

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[โ€“] tone212_@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is why I take PT after 9am on days I go to the office. By then it's mainly uni students on the train and much quieter, but still higher frequency. I'm not an early morning person so going after the morning rush works better for me. Same with driving in, I leave 9am once school has started. Leaving between 7:30am and 9am adds 10 to 15 mins to the trip.

[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's great being able to play Silksong on a laptop as I can do it in the bedroom when the kids don't settle properly, but I think I should save some of the harder stuff for the big computer. Silksong has an uncapped framerate so maybe the extra responsiveness of the big monitor might make a difference. Plus, the game looks gorgeous in 4k

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

NGL I hadn't heard about Hollow Knight until last week and kinda wanna give it a whack, but it looks like a lot of precision jumping and I'm just not great at that. I've been playing Odi and the Blind Forest and precision timing/jumping wears me out really quickly.

[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There are some sections of very precision platforming. The hardest parts are towards the end of the game and are completely optional based on what ending you want. They are both tough games, but they're so cheap you can just pick Hollow Knight up and just give it a go. Plus, it's Australian made.

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Twisted my arm, thank you! :D

[โ€“] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Huzzah got the soundcard and HDDs. Place I got the HDDs from threw in a tiny (9g) packet of jelly babies lol which was a nice touch.

Will finally have a functional studio again. Can't wait to make some glorified synthesised fart noises with 2.5ms latency.

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[โ€“] SaneMartigan@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Found this nice docu-gif about a St Kilda pidgeon lady. https://i.imgur.com/jeg1LqE.mp4

[โ€“] MeanElevator@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's so wholesome and educational.

I thought it was going to be about someone like the pigeon lady from Home Alone 2. This is better.

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[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

I think eating much less dairy ( I might have one thing a week ) and no bread has made me lose weight. I'm not complaining.

[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Got the vet time mixed up and they came before I managed to really tidy up -_-

I should have done the sweeping first rather than pacing myself and washing all the cat stuff. At least this way the stuff will be fully dry and I can find the floppy fish Melbcat doesnโ€™t want.

Her blood pressure is a little bit high and there may have to be a meds increase

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[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Work is just under 14km away and the bike says it can do 15km on the lowest assist setting and 8 on the highest. Lets see if i have to do some manual pedalling on the way to work today

[โ€“] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's awesome you're riding there man. What a huge saving in petrol/PT cash.

[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

I've done about two tanks worth of petrol on the bike so the savings are adding up slowly

[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Got in with some power to spare. I've taken to charging the bike at work so we don't even have to pay for the electricity to charge it

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