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I used to think the "th" sound is hard because it is uncommon in my language, we do not use our tongues to hit the top teeth like that. But then, it became 2nd nature after living abroad for almost 20 years.

Recently i happen to work with a lot of architects and designers and 1 word comes up which I think is the most difficult to pronouncr: AESTHETIC.

It sounds very simple but if you break down the syllables, your tongue needs to do a bit of work.

For the British English version, the "t" in tic is pronounced quite strong, as in "tick". Mostly, your tongue only needs to worry about the "THE" sound, i.e. ES-THE-TIC.

In US English, the "t" is most often pronounced as a soft "d". This means "TIC" will sound like "DIC". So your tongue needs to flick up for the "THE" sound and then immediately flick down for the "DIC".

This gets even harder if you consider the adverb: AESTHETICALLY. A lot of tongue gymnasium involve...

Any other words or phrase that you think is dificult?

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[–] sushiatnight@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I have trouble with "sixths".

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 6 points 2 weeks ago

and "twelvths"

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My children's optometrist is a place called "Tropical Optical". I can't do it.

[–] Peppycito@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Nemo@midwest.social 3 points 2 weeks ago

Ostentatious Austin, Texas

Stumbled on this tongue twister in the wild. It's freaking impossible.

Soldier shoulder surgery.

[–] bonoisatwat@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Months. The S after the TH as in THink vs THe, is difficult.

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Most native speakers do not really pronounce the "ths". Typically you hear "mons".

[–] KingGimpicus@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

Its a lot easier if you think of it as the same sound you'd get at the end of badum tiss

[–] JakeSparkleChicken@retrolemmy.com 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Native English speaker here. Aside from catching crap for regional accent differences, I didn't have any noticeable, repeating problems until COVID. I can't, for the life of me, properly pronounce comorbidity. Even when I really concentrate on it, it tends to come out as comorbibity. It really makes me sound stupid as hell.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm from the American Southeast. I speak with a tarheel drawl. To listen to me speak, you'd think the word "rural" has four Rs in it. Rrrrl.

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[–] DrSoap@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

My sister can't say sea minerals without it sounding like semen roll.

[–] residentoflaniakea@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You could always claim you learned English from Irish English speakers: they commonly substitute dental frictives with the plosives, so /th/ with /t/ or /d/.

[–] Miller@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

And the nimmins are replaced by addabs.

[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I used to find words that had the letter R followed by an L difficult. Like girl, world, etc. They're still a bit tongue twisty tbh

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Just drop the β€œr” English-style - β€œguhl”, β€œwuhld”. Easy!

Or you could go the other way and roll the β€œr” like the Seventh Doctor.

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Those 'r's are silent. The previous vowel just gets lengthened.

[–] AcornTickler@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Any combination of "th" and "s". Like "months", " clothes", etc.

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Most native speakers do not really pronounce the "ths". Typically you hear "mons", "close".

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[–] yopyop@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

February. I'm happy I don't have to say it often.

[–] ukcreation@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

UK native speaker. I tend to pronounce it "feb-Ι™-ree"

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Is there anywhere on earth that pronounces the R? FEB-you-air-EE.

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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

I can not wrap my tounge around ambulance while in a sentence.
So as an Aussie I just call them ambos.

[–] Zelaf@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

When I was younger I read and listened to a lot of English but didn't speak too much. It took me years to get a better hang of "Three" and "Free".

[–] mangaskahn@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Thats ok, there are entire regions of London that have the same problem.

[–] KumaLumaJuma@feddit.uk 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Grew up in the US (the Deep South)… moved to England, have been here for like a bajillion years and unfortunately still sound American πŸ˜•

But for me it is crisps. Why do we have to say this word when it is so awkward?!?

[–] Truffle@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You are not alone on this one.English is not my first language so I have to make a conscious effort with words that have STS sounds like: Ghosts, forests, dentists and crisps. Lol.

[–] KumaLumaJuma@feddit.uk 2 points 2 weeks ago

Glad to know I’m not alone, I don’t really understand why humanity has made things so hard for humanity at times… surely this can’t also be linked to greed like so many other issues?!? πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

[–] MrWrinkles@leminal.space 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

"probably" is awkward for me. I used to drop the b's and pronounce it "pro'ly", but now I make the effort to use "likely" instead

[–] Cheesus@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

β€œProlly” is how I pronounce it in speech, especially in the middle of a sentence.

I feel like one of the hardest things to master for non-native speakers, especially those who speak Romance languages, is the pronunciation of consonants that occur in the middle of phrases. It’s not a hard and fast rule, and depends on the speaker, but those said middle consonants are often very understated, especially in fast speech. I can always tell a Spanish or French native speaker because they would pronounce it: pro-Ba-BLEE, with the clear, distinct, staccato-like intonation of their mother tongues.

[–] KingGimpicus@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

"Assthedick"

Now you'll never forget.

As a native english speaker, obsequious.

[–] milliams@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That's not an English word, that's a space catholic word.

I have a disdain for technical latin, Stop telling me I have hypernatremia; high blood salt is exactly as detailed and like 54 syllables shorter.

[–] ThomasWilliams@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

English speaker - corollary.

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[–] cheeso@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

non native here

girl, world, rivalry

in ascending difficulty, i generally find soft Rs hard to say, tho after a few years, it became easier

[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Australian here and with my bigan arse accent I struggle to pronounce the word "regularly"

I break it up to much when I read it into reg-u-lar-ly

If i say it is just roll through the last have and get regurrrly

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago

Is your accent the one where "oh, no!" sounds like "ohr, nohr!"

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[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

i used to have difficulty pronouncing the "th" sound as a child too. i would use the same accent my parents did when they used it in words like "three" and i can remember celebrating the moment i realized that i said the number "three" correctly, naturally and without a thought.

ever since then, i've struggled with NOT pronouncing the "th" sound when i speak words that require the hard rolling-r sound like in the spanish word "tres", so go figure. lol

[–] Miller@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Legislative.

[–] zikzak025@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

For me, probably "specific" and "interdisciplinary"

[–] grandel@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

Sphere or Sphincter

I am becoming more convinced that I should have been a voice actor......

[–] communism@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

Non-native but spent a lot of my life living in English-speaking contexts. I know how to pronounce it, but my tongue seems to like tripping up over "hospital".

[–] PetteriPano@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Czech has this special Ř sound, which is somewhere between a rolling R and the S in vision (/ˈvΙͺΚ’Ι™n/). I'm learning Czech as a fifth language, so while I can pronounce it standalone or at the start of a word it takes all my focus to manage mid-word.

[–] dawcas@scribe.disroot.org 1 points 2 weeks ago

Everything is difficult (I'm from Spain).

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