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And also why do you like it, what is it saying?

I'm trying not to think about reality and want to hear about the far edges of people's moral horizons.

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[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Freddy Got Fingered is just... mostly in bad taste.

But man, the nature of the beast is like 20 years ahead of its time in terms of irony culture.

I guess I should explain more. Tom Green was known for pioneering the style of annoying street skit that Eric Andre would later employ. If you've heard The Real Slim Shady, you may already know that it was cool for Tom Green to hump a dead moose.

Some studio head said, "This kid can make us some money! Let's give him $14 million to make a Tom Green movie!"

Another finger on the monkey's paw unfurled, and Tom Green made a movie that only Tom Green could make. Kaufmanesque, it's been said.

You may have heard of the Golden Raspberry Awards, the bad movie awards, an ironic twist on the Oscars. They do invite their nominees, but naturally few show to the awards. Freddy Got Fingered swept the awards, winning five Razzies in total.

Tom Green showed up in a limousine, rolled out his own red carpet, thanked the awards as he had made exactly the movie he wanted to make and they recognized that, then played kazoo onstage until he was physically dragged off.

I adore it.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I have never laughed harder at a movie than the first time I saw that when it came to VHS. The maternity ward scene nearly broke me.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I cry laughing every single time. The performances are simply immaculate.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I recommend the Redlettermedia re:View video as well. It's almost as funny as the movie.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago

I watch it almost as much as the movie! I slipped a Mike quote in my post, but I didn't credit him by name ;)

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I like finding and reading old zines, there's an amazing mashup of pornography and counterculture and early tech wizardry geekiness to be found in late 90s and early 2000s zines that just can't be replicated anywhere else.

If you tried to make them today, you would just be a poser.

[–] moonshadow@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 months ago (4 children)

If you tried to make them today, you would just be a poser.

False. Idolizing that snapshot and discouraging human output misses the point entirely and is the worst poser take on the subject I can imagine. Curated sips of ancient counterculture are just pretentious self indulgence if you aren't drawing inspiration, and disparaging those who would actually participate is extra gross. Go make a zine about how much you love old zines, it'll be fun

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[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Would you ever post one? I want to see

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There's a surprising number of them available on archive.org, just search for zines.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago

I wanted to see one of yours tho

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 months ago

I wish I could find an archive of Funny Animal Fan zines but search engines suck so much fuckin taint now, I’ve had no success.

[–] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

John Waters. His films are transgressive, tasteless, and trashy for the purpose of being transgressive, tasteless, and trashy. You have a movie in 1970 (Multiple Maniacs) where a drag queen, Lady Divine, gets a lesbian “rosary-job” intercut with scenes of the stations of the cross. Among many other things, Divine is raped by a giant fake lobster and eventually killed by the national guard to “America the Beautiful.” It’s a massive middle finger to everything sacred; the necessary profane.

[–] kip@piefed.zip 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

missed this before i wrote my own reply. yeah john waters in general is fucking great. there's a line early in his book 'shock value' that's something like 'to appreciate bad taste you must have extremely good taste' and i can take some comfort in that

edit: i dug the book out. the actual quote is 'to understand bad taste one must have very good taste'

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[–] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Perfect, thank you!

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 months ago

aaayyyy I know of Divine. interesting cultural footprint, In Praise of Shadows did a cool media retrospective about Waters

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[–] ryokimball@infosec.pub 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Not "the most" but, the first that comes to mind is music by Jimmy Urine (Mindless Self Indulgence, Left Rights, Euringer). "Fuck Everything" is a mood, and while it is honestly far more tame than any of his previous works, it sums them up pretty well. Raging not against the machine but society, his parents, and his psychiatrist. Dude's probably fucked up father north than Santa and "just acting out" (I'm sure he'll grow out of it) but the music definitely strikes a chord with me.

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago

Too Bad hes a POS, but you can never say he tried to hide it

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[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I like very offensive standup comedy and funny content. I'm of the belief anything can be made funny if correctly done. Humor is also one of the things that helps me personally process negative emotions and events.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'd say that tracks with your post history

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago
[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago

WHAT WHAT, IN THE BUTT

[–] Luminous5481@anarchist.nexus 7 points 2 months ago

I like art that depicts billionaires/politicians/law enforcement getting violently hurt.

[–] muxika@piefed.muxika.org 6 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Not sure it's what you're looking for, but I've been into provocative t-shirts and subversive music lately.

I have a T-shirt with Daphne Blake shooting Klansmen, exclaiming, "Gosh darn it, that one's not a real ghost either!"

For music, I've been going through a phase of deathcore (Lorna Shore, Chelsea Grin, Whitechapel) digital hardcore (Atari Teenage Riot), ho99o9 (punk/industrial/metal/rap), and whatever the fuck PeelingFlesh is (chopped and screwed grindcore, maybe).

[–] Semester3383@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] muxika@piefed.muxika.org 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Semester3383@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

He seems to be a cool dude. IIRC, one of the big things that he does is organize feeding homeless people in Texas.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 3 points 2 months ago

I've almost ordered that same Daphne shirt a couple of times.

I have a shirt with a vial of Narcan on it that says "Get Woke".

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] muxika@piefed.muxika.org 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

that reminds me of something funny

I guess both of these images can't be canon by the concept of both are funny to me

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[–] chunes@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (3 children)

One of my favorite books of all time, Evasion, was written by an anonymous person detailing their years-long delinquent protest against capitalism.

They really walked the walk. I'm talking about totally tramping it up. Surviving mostly by dumpster diving and shoplifting. The writing is a perfect blend of practical experience, mundane details, and anarchic romanticism. The book taught me to see all this absurdity as a playground.

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[–] AstralPath@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Black metal. Lots of shitty people have used it as a vessel for their shitty views. I don't support them financially, but god damn do some of them make great music.

One recognizable upper-crust name would be Varg Vikernes and his Burzum project. Absolute shitstain of a huma. But my god does he know how to craft atmosphere.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago

I told a manager one time I liked black metal and he immediately started moralizing at me about Varg and the Mayhem drama. Which was a weird thing to do to someone who offhandedly mentions having an interest in something he apparently had some knowledge of. I think it was just a kind of stance he had been waiting a while to verbally make.

[–] JollyG@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Currently my favorite piece of art is accidentally transgressive. It is a kinetic sculpture, and fairly unimpressive for what it is. Apparently it is a rip-off of someone else's style. It is owned by a hotel that put it on the sidewalk corner for whatever reason. Generally unimpressive on its own.

The thing that makes it interesting is that, unlike most sculptures I have seen, this one locks as in: the spinning parts are prevented from moving unless a special key is used to unlock them. And the hotel locks the sculpture during non-business hours. If you want to see the sculpture move, you have to visit it between the hours of 9-5 on work days. Presumably when the hotel staff can monitor your presence on the public sidewalk just outside their hotel. Otherwise it is locked. Something about putting a derivative sculpture in a public space, then taking steps to prevent the public from enjoying it is fascinating to me. Although I feel like a speech from a hotel lawyer about potential liability or whatever reason they so vigilantly lock it is an essential part of the art that I am missing.

[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Does niche fetish stuff that isnt exactly designed to offend but which would seem scary or disturbing to most people who's brains don't happen to be wired to enjoy it count as transgressive? If so, (a subset of) vore art

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[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh, Chick Tracts, too!

They're just so interesting to me, even if they're horrid depictions of what Jack T. Chick thought would happen to sinners.

The AIDS one is super tasteful.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

ChickTracts is so funny, I have this saved to my meme folder to do something with some day

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago

That MY ANCESTOR shirt would go hard as hell if the monkey had a derby hat and a cigar

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Purry Forn. Obviously for the main reason anyone enjoys porn, but even fetish stuff I am not personally interested in sometimes has great, well drawn art.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 months ago

I’ve never been much into pron, and I haven’t been at ALL into it for like, decades now. I will never NOT stop to appreciate any well-drawn furry art, no matter what the subject is, no matter level of SFW/NSFW-ness, no matter how fucked up the subject matter is. I love cute/well-drawn furry stuff so much.

[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago

aayyy my best friend in highschool was a furry. through exposure I'm pretty confident in my abilities to spot art that's made by a furry artist even if it isn't obvious

[–] GuyIncognito@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago
[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

The Tiger Lillies — "Banging in the Nails" (youtube music link, sorry)

While I can't know the spirit in which the song was written, I suspect it was intended to shock and offend. But I'm firmly "death of the author", so IDGAF. I listen to it as part of my Lenten devotions, a reminder that the sacrifice of Christ is necessary because we humans in general and me specifically are fucking depraved.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 months ago

They are just geuinely transgressive. "Kick A Baby Down the Stairs" "Vagina In the Sky" "If You Want to Win Do Heroin"

Fantastic gig when I saw them live, insanely playing Banging in the Nails on a children's drum kit with hammers.

Omg that's fucking hysterical

[–] kip@piefed.zip 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

in books, some extreme horror/splatterpunk, i think the bighead by edward lee is the strongest one i've read & enjoyed

for films, i'm not that sure where the line is but i like new french extremity (martyrs, inside, irreversible) and that seems to fit the bill

i am soft as shit irl, even boxing can be a bit strong for me. but in fiction i can enjoy artists who describe situations well beyond the normal boundaries of decency. i suppose it's something like rollercoaster riders or bungee jumpers etc where the immediate natural repulsion is tempered by the security of not being in any actual danger, and i take some sort of satisfaction in that? who knows really. other than horror, pink flamingos is probably the most transgressive film i can think of. i still don't think i could watch the epilogue scene without looking away

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

wearing see-through dresses without a bra 😎

(it's me i'm the work of art)

it's. hot.

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