I worry about this sometimes. I don't ever want to be seen as speaking "for" minorities I'm not a member of, but I do want to be seen speaking "up for" them. And I worry about finding the right balance. I don't want to speak over them, but do want to help make it clear that I support them and I am opposed to those who are opposed to them. I don't want to be MLK's "white moderate".
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I feel that the most important thing is to speak out against the people who oppose minorities' rights. You don't need to speak for minorities to oppose those who oppress them.
Don't worry, this is just chud racist propaganda in an attempt to divide the left by race.
Speak truth to power and punch Nazis.
Most folks I know just want you to treat em like people. And if someone's being a dick to the it's certainly right to call it out (and maybe spit on em if the circumstance permits).
I struggle with this too. I'm reading White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo right now though and it's main suggestion is to just oppose racism when you see it. Call white people out on their behavior even if it makes everyone uncomfortable and makes you unpopular.
Also, to listen to feedback from people of color without getting defensive. No one is going to be perfect and we live in a system which is constantly socializing us, it's ok if we fuck up but just try and fix it when you learn better.
You don't need to worry about shit. Propaganda like the OP's serves only to make you feel guilty about speaking up, pushing you to become one of MLK's white moderates.
If you're in a position to advocate for a group who's voice is being muffled, do it.
You already know the distinction between that and talking over them - don't let internet bullshit blur the line.
I heard this once, and it’s stuck with me since: don’t speak for people that you don’t speak to. It helps me remember that I don’t really know the challenges a marginalized community faces if I’m not a part of it, and I should do the work of listening and understanding before inserting myself into a situation with perhaps well-intentioned, but misguided, attempts at helping.
Stand beside, not in front.
You can stand in front as a shield, but only then.
Enable them to speak for themselves. Be the person that notices they are missing from the conversation and invites them in.
Nobody needs/wants the white liberal to speak for them, but another voice in the crowd demanding something surely can't be a bad thing?
Apparently OP is "all white people are bad! the people who are on our side and those who are not! silence!!"
First they came for the Communists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Communist
Then they came for the Socialists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Socialist
Then they came for the trade unionists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a trade unionist
Then they came for the Jews
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Jew
Then they came for me
And there was no one left
To speak out for me
As long as you don't "correct" or act like you know better that minorities, you will be a good Ally.
Don't say "I will help you!", instead ask "how can i help you?"
It's funny because I'm constantly seeing minority groups telling white people not to ask how to help and to just figure it out and help or get out of the way.
It's kinda frustrating hearing so many different takes on white people trying to help because it feels like a large portion don't want us to help at all
The thing is, to us, what you can do to help is so obvious that it feels like we’re being asked how to breathe.
Help your community, volunteer for a cause, don’t get involved in acts of hatred disguised as moralism or the defense of a national or ethnic identity, educate yourself by reading authors who are part of the minority you want to support, confront and accept the reality of privilege, etc.
But also, often the question “How can I help?” masks the real question: “How can I be a hero to your people?”. So I suppose that before one ask how to help, one should first ask oneself “Do I really want to help?” and be honest about it.
What if the minorities are wrong?
That’s the question from which fucked up shit start to happen, but let’s take it at face value.
In that case, you can look for a segment of the minority group that aligns with your ideals (because not all of us think the same way, we’re not a collective mind) and offer them your support.
Do you encounter, say, Latinos who support Trump? Leave them alone and offer support to Latinos who are critical of Trump; We’ll know how to use your help to take actions that benefit all of us, including those who are “wrong.”
What a chud post.
NLG OP is kind of the cancer we all wished stayed on reddit.
Take shitposts seriously and get into fights with strangers on the internet.
As a trans white woman, tbh I remember when the discussion was that privileged people should be amplifying minority voices and talking points, and at least on the axes I'm oppressed along I stand by that position. A lot of people are unwilling to listen to me about my humanity, but they are a hell of a lot more likely to listen to my cis relatives.
Also those discussions can be exhausting for the affected and having the non affected doing 101 level talks with each other spares me them.
I think there isn't a black and white (no pun intended) rule when it comes to standing up for someone else.
There are situations where it's appropriate and situations it's not.
And it's hard to say across the board to keep your mouth shut if you are white and see another group being discriminated against. Or to always interject yourself.
I'm a woman and I think of the times I've been in a situation where I really would have appreciated a man stepping in so that I didn't have to be the one woman calling out something so blatantly misogynist.
Because then I'm seen as the bad person. The snowflake.
But other times, I think . Men need to shut up about what they think women need or want about our reproductive health because they don't know anything. But I sure would like it if they supported what we said.
My general rule is. I back people up if they say something about an injustice and show I support them.
But if I see blatant discrimination and injustices being enacted on someone, I will call it out.
And try my best not to draw attention to the person being discriminated against and make them feel embarrassed.
Damn we getting mad at white women again?
As someone that defended humanity of Palestinians and spoke out against Israel genocide, it's okay if white women talk about the plight of others or the oppression they suffer
Slavery didn't end because the slaves revolted. It ended because white people fought to abolish it. The North could have allowed the South to continue on as a separate nation with slaves, but they insisted the Confederacy remain with the Union, AND end slavery.
Often the downtrodden need those in power to use that power to fight for them.
Slavery didn't end because the slaves revolted. It ended because white people fought to abolish it.
Holy revisionist history!!
White abolitionists absolutely played a role in ending chattel slavery in the United States, not the least of which were John Brown, the 48ers, and others who were doing what they did for the goal of Abolition primarily.
The vast majority of northern politicians, generals, and soldiers, were engaged in the Civil war to preserve the Union, first and foremost. Abolition was a distant secondary concern for most of them.
Furthermore, Slaves weren't just sitting on their asses waiting to be freed by the benevolence of white people, they were agents of history all on their own. W.E.B. DuBois argued in Black Reconstruction in America that an underdiscussed turning point in the Civil War was when slaves engaged in one of the largest general strikes in American history. A strike which crippled the southern economy and thus its ability to sustain the war.
So yes, Slavery did end in very large part because the slaves revolted.
So, back in real life. At a protest? Yes, it's valuable for white people to speak up, since they're more difficult for police to persecute. Sorry you're too uninformed and naice to realize this, so wise OP.
i think some people are missing the point in that its making fun of the people that do this for the vanity instead of actually caring
I am a cis white woman. My opinion has never, in my life, mattered to any real consequence. I am not liberal, I am an anarchist. Fuck this title. My opinion has never mattered in the scheme of things and never will. What's the best I could ever do? Be loud on Twitter? Maybe run for minor local office and lose to a rich fuck? No. My opinions do not, in fact matter. They never have, and they never will.
Racist post. I hope it isn't tolerated by the community.
Do activists with a messiah complex exist? Yes. Are they annoying? Yes. Should folks considered "white" and politically "liberal" be generalized into having this attribute? No. It's racist to do so.
OP is quite bigoted and should know better.
This is a hilarious take. How far do you think it would go if only black people cared about black problems? If only black people fought against slavery, I'm almost certain it would still be widespread publicly. It still certainly is t fixed. We still have systemic corruption and incarceration based servitude for slave wages, but on an individual level, it's been mostly taken care of and because it wasn't just the directly affect fighting against it. No, minorities do not need anyone to speak for them, but other people, especially those of the same race as the oppressors, it needs to happen. Otherwise "they're just being uppity again."