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No, I'm really glad you asked this question. Living in the hood, I had a nebulous idea I couldn't trust the dboyz and their stables. Now I know to save my breath so I can plant seeds in more fertile soil!
Thank you! ๐ซก
"dboyz" and their "stables"? Slang terms I do not know about :0 Also, you are welcome! I hope you are in a better situation right now.
Dope boys (drug dealers https://rapdictionary.com/meaning/d-boy/) stables (prostitutes ["fillies," https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/filly but tbh some are 60+, so "nags" https://petreader.net/why-are-horses-called-nags/])
Sorry for so many edits. If you hear any of these terms, above or below, you may be unknowingly witnessing human trafficking.
https://sharedhope.org/the-problem/trafficking-terms/
Well I never heard of these terms before (it is not like I want to research that topic) but thanks for telling me.
I mean, it's not like I knew and planned on finding out. All I can say is, the woo phrase, "rejection is [G-d's] protection," is the honest truth!
Edit: in a way I'm in a better situation. I know what terms actually mean, as opposed to what I thought I knew them to mean.
Learn the terms. The life you save may be your own. And don't say it can't happen to you. All it takes is say, a husband leaving you, while unbeknownst to you, two months behind on rent, so you rent the first place that happens to be available.
Of course, I will keep what you said in mind. Hope you stay safe!
I'm as safe as it gets. And I'm not trafficked, nor have I been as I'm my own adult (I'm not ready to talk about childhood yet, and don't touch it, ~~in~~ I'm currently on a seven day work week; I've discussed it with my therapist ~~even~~ when I had one). I refused to go into agreement and "keep to the code." Some say it's more dangerous that way. I don't think so.