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[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

They could be asexual as well.

Otherwise, I agree that it's best to start collecting experience earlier rather than later. 30 year old me has half the stamina of 20 year old me, but can satisfy partners with a much better success rate. And at the end of the day, the best part about sex is making your partner feel good.

But that doesn't mean one should have sex just to have sex. Only one of my partners has been a meaningless one night stand I wasn't even attracted to, every other one I've had some kind of feelings for.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

But that doesn't mean one should have sex just to have sex. Only one of my partners has been a meaningless one night stand I wasn't even attracted to, every other one I've had some kind of feelings for.

I agree. I can't have sex with someone if I don't have a connection with that person.

And at the end of the day, the best part about sex is making your partner feel good.

That truly is the absolute best part of it. Getting an orgasm is easy, just use your hand. Giving an orgasm however, is so much more satisfying. Knowing what you're doing is really important. Otherwise you get into your head and struggle with insecurities instead of being in the moment. Or at least that's what I experienced when I was young.

They could be asexual as well.

That's not a choice.

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Could seem like a choice to them. Plus I think ace is also a bit of a spectrum.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago