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Not the person you asked, but the industry is horribly unethical. Pornhub hosted and made good money on CSAM.

Another aspect is the way things which are pretty intense and should only be happening in negotiated, BDSM contexts are presented as normal parts of sex. Choking is extremely fucking dangerous and really shouldn’t be done by anyone who doesn’t explicitly know what they are doing, but it’s treated as almost part of vanilla sex. Painful anal sex is treated as desirable.

I’ve had a lot of casual sex with men, and many many times these men have done things like spanked or choked me without consent, and I feel like in part that happens because it’s part of the sex script they learned from watching porn.

Also, so much of it seems to be from Eastern European countries where the women might be getting trafficked. You might recall that Andrew Tate’s grift, which he has passed on to others, was essentially forcing women to cam for him while he kept the money.

Like, I think porn can be done ethically. Conceivably, we could have a world where exhibitionists who are having fun are the only ones making porn - maybe if we had UBI and no one had to do it to survive. But that’s not the world we live in.

I wrote out a guide a while back which people seemed to appreciate.

Just put a little effort in it. If you want your dick to be admired, frame it in a way worth admiring.

It’s not really that far removed from flashing someone if it’s unsolicited. And - even as a guy who loves dick pics - no one is going to be enticed by a poorly lit picture of your dick held up next to a monster can in your bathroom. (What the hell is with the “over the toilet shot”? So gross.)

My ELO is 6969

My fucking machine is way better but also so goddamned LOUD. My neighbors probably do hear more than they want to as it is but that thing is ridiculous.

As a trans guy, it also sucks. I put in every single posting “yo I am a dude, I am a hairy man with a beard” but still I get low effort messages from straight guys.

I think Fet depends on area, and how toxic your local dungeon scene is….

Gonna be real with you chief -

Somebody should have probably stopped me from going to LoversLab as a teenager and seeing beastiality and necrophilia.

There’s a middle ground. While the government probably isn’t in the position to figure it out, the abundance of extreme porn that is completely accessible to kids is not good either.

This is why I like trains. If I time it right it just keeps going and going and going… one FWB ain’t enough

Hands around my throat. Especially if I’m being fucked by someone who doesn’t care there’s a beard there. But nothing is better than having hands around my throat in a context where I feel entirely safe.

I’ve had an 11” before - like baby arm girth too. It’s absolutely physically taxing. Not just the “ouch” from cervix bumping but also there’s just something about big penises that make it feel like exercise. 9” is fun but it’s like I ran a marathon.

It would be difficult to show off his boomstick that way though.