Nissa

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[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 0 points 4 hours ago

Wonderful! That really helps alot!

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 0 points 4 hours ago

Interesting, I never considered Duluth and buy all my work pants from them. I'll have to take a look

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 0 points 5 hours ago

Will do, thank you!!!

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 0 points 6 hours ago

Thank you!!! This is exactly what I was looking for! Hopefully they keep coming out with more patterns

 

Does anyone know where I'm can find cute bra/bralette and pantie sets? I really want cute comfy matching sets and the only place I've found is warriorsandscholars.com and they have like no stock.

Any help is appreciated!

Thanks

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

 

Rocking a very Avril look today, love this skirt! I wasn't sure what footwear I could girlmode in with out spending a ton until I remembered I have Doc Martin's from when I was 15 and was trying to pull off a punk rock look.

Got some new fat laces for them, my favorite color combo purple and white on one and trans pride on the other. Just need to cut them to length, got them long since I had no idea how long they needed with the layering. Have multiple pairs of each so I can switch to anyone color or combo.

Hope all you lovely ladies are having a splendid day!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

Your hips aren't what's standing in your way, you are. Now go out and get you some new clothes! Do a makeover montage! Share cute selfies if your comfortable!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Congrats! Therapy is so great once you get used to it. I feel lucky that I've been in therapy on and off my whole life and always encouraged to talk out my feelings at home. I have an appointment next week and will be talking about this part of my life for the first time. I even sent him a link to my realization posts on Transfem.

That coat is super cute and it comes in purple?!?!?! Gotta have it! How dare you feed my shopping addiction lol. Honestly I've been having so much fun femme shopping.

Hope you have a wonderful day and a good session with your therapist!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago

So happy for you! Having them and wearing them is one thing, going out in public is a whole nother level! Props to you girl!

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First pic! (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by Nissa@lemmy.world to c/trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Felt cute last night in my new matching skirt and socks!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

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First pic! (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by Nissa@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Felt cute last night in my new matching skirt and socks!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 0 points 2 days ago

Well at least you have an idea of what the problem is and hopefully it gets better. I should have my cage in the next week or so and if you are curious feel free to reach out. I'd be more than willing to share my experience. Not matter what you be you girly!

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Yea I'm not great at it, that's why I use vortex. It tells me if I'm missing mods or if mods clash. Bethesda is definitely a buggy company in general. Really wish they weren't

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Yea that may contribute, I started with 3 so I never noticed a difference between 3, NV, and 4. Do you play on PC? If you do, I bet there's an auto save mod. I use Nexus mods Vortex mod loader. I'm currently addicted to Starfield so I know how hard it is to jump out of the current binge. Have fun regardless, that's the important part!

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Developed by Obsidian, owned by Bethesda, but yea really more Obsidian's baby so my bad.

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 0 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Have you considered a chastity cage? It would would keep you from having an erection and diminish the overall size of the bulge. I'm getting one to look/feel more feminine in my panties and skirts. This is what I'm getting:

https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1

I don't like that it says sissy on it so I plan on filing that off. Don't know how normal this is but it sounds like it might be a good option for you.

The feminine chastity lemmy group is like 90% porn but there are some post about chastity progress and advice. It's pretty inactive but you might get lucky:

https://lemmynsfw.com/c/sissychastity

I generally only masturbate as a form of bodily maintenance, it's a good stress reliever and helps boost your immune system. It might help you to think of it this way, disconnect the sexual nature of the act.

I hope any of this helps. I don't like to hear you are in so much pain, and want nothing more than for you to feel good about you no matter what. Deep breaths and remember, it's a beautiful day as long as you want it to be!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

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submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by Nissa@lemmy.world to c/trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Realized something awesome this morning. After girlmoding off and on all weekend, the wife and I took a mental health day yesterday. She needed some boy mode time with me to help sort through our feelings. We were also hella wrecked from all the easter socializing.

Anywho, as I've said before I work in the trades around mostly straight right-wing men. You know the funniest thing about straight right-wing men? They are the gayest mother fuckers on the planet. I squeezed past a guy in the shit shack durring morning huddle and he said 'oh so you don't want to cuddle with me?' Which I replied ' No, I just want to hold you from behind' 'okay, you can be the big spoon'

Later on the guys were signing up for softball and were pressing me to join. I'm really not a sports girl, so I told them I'd just be their cheerleader. 'I already have a cheerleader, it's my wife' and I said 'that's okay, you can have two. We'll even get matching outfits!'

They laugh cuz it's a joke and I'm just sitting there picturing myself in a cute uniform with pig tails and pom-poms.

I may have to boy mode on the outside, but no one can stop me girl moding on the inside.

Stay tuned for more thoughts and (hopefully soon) pictures from me! Have a wonderful day ladies! Love you!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

Edit:Spell check

A guy from straight different trade just came up to me and said 'Hey Beautiful, how we doing'. Inside I'm grinning ear to ear!

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submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by Nissa@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Realized something awesome this morning. After girlmoding off and on all weekend, the wife and I took a mental health day yesterday. She needed some boy mode time with me to help sort through our feelings. We were also hella wrecked from all the easter socializing.

Anywho, as I've said before I work in the trades around mostly straight right-wing men. You know the funniest thing about straight right-wing men? They are the gayest mother fuckers on the planet. I squeezed past a guy in the shit shack durring morning huddle and he said 'oh so you don't want to cuddle with me?' Which I replied ' No, I just want to hold you from behind' 'okay, you can be the big spoon'

Later on the guys were signing up for softball and were pressing me to join. I'm really not a sports girl, so I told them I'd just be their cheerleader. 'I already have a cheerleader, it's my wife' and I said 'that's okay, you can have two. We'll even get matching outfits!'

They laugh cuz it's a joke and I'm just sitting there picturing myself in a cute uniform with pig tails and pom-poms.

I may have to boy mode on the outside, but no one can stop me girl moding on the inside.

Stay tuned for more thoughts and (hopefully soon) pictures from me! Have a wonderful day ladies! Love you!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

Edit:Spell check

A guy from straight different trade just came up to me and said 'Hey Beautiful, how we doing'. Inside I'm grinning ear to ear!

 

Thank you all for the support yesterday and the day before! All the love, the understanding, the support, the encouragement, and most of all the stories reeeeeaaaaallllyyyy helped me. I spent a good chunk of my day yesterday playing starfield and looking at trans/egg memes, and I think yall maybe right. I still am not sure who I am but I can say with a bit more confidence

Hi, I'm Nissa!

I talked with my wife last night, told her I thought I was trans and let her read my post and all of your comments. I sat there scared and crying while she read. She gave me a bit hug and told me she loved me no matter what. She said even if it turns out she married a woman, she will stay by my side and support me with anything and everything thing my future might hold. I showed her a brallete and panties set I thought was really cute and she bought it for me.

Right now the only thing I know for sure my future holds is talking to my therapist and loesing 30lbs, but for my health not because I'm trans.

When I woke up this morning my first clear headed though was "ugh I don't want to get up". My second clear headed thought was "I'm Nissa, and thats okay." and to thank you for being here, listening to me, and helping me. It really means the world to me.

I occasionally whisper in my head, 'I'm Nissa, and that's okay' and it makes me smile. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart, today is a bright new day and I have a bright future ahead of me!

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