Trans Joy

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the place to post trans joy!

selfies, nudes, other stuff, whateversies really. if it gives you gender euphoria or brings you joy or anything like that it can go here!

needless to say, bigots will be yeeted on sight

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stuff like this always reaffirms for me just how important cultivating spaces like this truly is

EDIT: putting the full text here to make it easier to read and bc the alt text got a length error when i tried pasting the whole thing:

Hmmm. Couldn’t figure out how to send a message to multiple people via the web UI, my phone is way on the other side of the room, and I wrote this draft on my laptop. So the other moderator here got the same message.

I don’t do posts, but I wrote a thing that I wanted to share with your community. Do what you will with it.

I don’t subscribe to this community, because I don’t really subscribe to things. My usage of the fediverse is the same as it was on reddit: I just look at what cream makes its way to the top (surprising amount of porn). I expect paywalled “news”, scientific articles about the world burning, cops doing cop things, trump doing trump things, and the occasional rescued owl and adorable fox. You know, doom scrolling the fall of humanity like god intended.

It started with the selfies, the most annoying of all pictures. People loving their bodies, or loving how their bodies are starting to align with their brain. Sometimes it was ridiculous smiles, other times it was coy, just a tiny glint of a smile, with uncertainty behind the eyes. And sometimes I could feel the eye roll that happened just before the pic was taken with a ‘fuck it, let’s do this’ attitude.

I would open up jerboa, prepare my mind for the ways that humanity is slowly committing suicide, and start scrolling. But nooo. I couldn’t even do that in peace. Every couple of posts, suddenly this community would pop up, with some beautiful person beaming at the camera, and oooozing happiness out of my monitor onto my keyboard. I can’t help but smile, completely ruining my doom scroll.

YOU FUCKERS RUINED THE FEDIVERSE!! Please don’t stop.

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so i changed my name legally like three years ago right? but i never updated it with my insurance or any of that due to mental health and neurodivergence reasons. so i've been dreading the day when i finally got hurt and had to go to the hospital. well, it happened a week ago. i fell off a ten foot bridge at the dead baby downhill afterparty and totally fucked up my ankle big time. like "in the hospital for two weeks needing three surgeries" levels of fucked

BUT thankfully everyone has been super friendly, especially the person at checkin who made sure the correct name was used for everything despite the name mismatch on my insurance. and for the most part people have been extremely friendly and accepting. even the two times i got misgendered (which is somewhat understandable because those were before a friend brought over my electric razor and so i had more facial hair than i ever normally let myself, like days upon days worth) the person who did it just swiftly corrected themself and moved on and still genuinely seemed to wanna make sure i was okay

so yeah this has been hell but still so much better than i expected. i had figured i would be getting deadnamed and misgendered constantly

but i am still suffering so hardcore, this is the most boring uncomfortable worst thing to ever happen to me by far.

so if you'd like to donate to help me out with the costs and misery feel free to at https://vanta.money/

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I finally have my appartment!!! 🎉🎉🎉

The next few days will be hard too to move all the stuff we need to live together me and my partner.

I'm already sore from getting furniture and lifting heavy furniture... Still happy though.

We're probably done Sunday. Yay!

In other news i'm ginger again, and i'm glad my father still got his minivan. It's in poor condition but it's still working.

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Im back, rona wasnt nearly as bad as first time around. Punk ass disease didnt want none lmao

Anyway, back with a dress ive wanted to show for a long time but never really found a reason to do so. Felt like a special occasion thing yknow? Plus is not the most modest dress lmaoo

Hope everyones week is good as always and dont let the bastards grind you down ❤️❤️ i sure wont 😁

Also PS @tanisnikana@lemmy.world see it literally says it on my chest! 😂😂

Love you all 😘 stay safe

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sure, might as well post this here too ^v^

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/47316605

so for background around february? maybe march? one of those two in 2023 we figured out dressing like a girl was pretty fun, and took on the femboy identity.

some months later we thought, "being referred to as a girl feels nice, but i'm not sure if that's entirely applicable", thus leading to at some point a bigender identity and at some point pangender. perhaps late 2023 or early 2024 we shuttered having any male identity at all.

but that aside, pictures!

10 July 2024

this is the first photo we really have. we don't have any prior to this on hand. it was taken after being discharged from a hospital! our acne was awful at the time (and up until starting HRT) so we wore face masks so much.

wait... hold on... filenames checking in.

12 October 2023

okay, this is the first photo! apparently the timestamps in our photo folders are a little messed up for the older files.

here we are looking like a femboy ISIS member.

21 March 2025

this is our first selfie we took just cuz we felt like it. if we remember right we were about to take a photo of something before moving it with the forklift. we had discovered that hats covered our bushy eyebrows very nicely.

13 April 2025

bangs!

27 April 2025

longer bangs! and going out in a very feminine fit for the first time. after getting bangs we started to take a TON more photos compared to before.

16 November 2025

some months earlier we stopped wearing a mask for we had acquired medication for acne.

water has always been the enemy of our bangs. as it is, we don't look young, but we ascended into retiree status with this photo lol (although if it weren't for the eyebrows we wouldn't mind)

the bushy eyebrows are very apparent. a transfemme friend did recommend a place to get them done for a reasonable price but we still haven't gone yet to this very day xD

23 December 2025

we've been on hormone therapy for around two or so months and this bra was already full heheh (even with it being a lower than ideal dose). our genetics may give rise to lots of horrible stuff, but at least we'll have big boobs!

+) it is at around this point we began posting to lemmy! (+

thus, you can sift through our oldest posts and check stuff out if you want any further ideas.

of note is this photo though (22 February 2026):

it's the first selfie we ever posted. it's also one of very few selfies we have taken with hair that loose. we HATE how our loose hair looks, and honestly those photos alone are making us consider either cutting it shorter, straightening it, and/or dyeing it....

wait WAIT VERY IMPORTANT INTERJECTION we just remembered this test photo on this digital camera.

from this perspective our loose hair looks... okay? THAT MEANS WE CAN MAKE THIS WORK :D this just made us so giddy rn omgomg yalsidfhuwieahflaljnvd

thnx y'all <3

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This corset gives me such gender euphoria, damn. I love how it looks on me 🖤

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figured I can take another one of these its been 2 years after all!

2024 dog surfing:

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we weren't parked in that garage either, we don't own any car or drive at all lol

also YES we do brush our teeth twice daily. sadly pre-transition us did not. thanks depression /s

being a nosy bitch is such great fun :3

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she's just like me! hot pink and rainbows!!!

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That is all

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I stole this dress from my wife and after putting myself together, makeup, boobs earrings, hair, I caught myself in the mirror and had to stop and process because I was actually attracted to my body, which has never once happened in my life!

Edit: Thanks for all the kind words everyone! ❤️ Today went really well, and now that I know I'm comfortable in a mini dress, I need to get more! Oh, wait, stores are in full autumn mode already! 😭

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how's everyone doing this morning? felt like I should post cus I kinda love my makeup rn lol

eye makeup my beloved 🤤

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Had a prettx shitty week, all things considerd. I knkw I am hard on myself but at least a couple of the things didn't need to happen like they did if only I payed a little more attention so yeah, kinda down right now. but hey at least I can open my camera, smile and suddenly there is this cute girl that even after almost 5 years hrt and 6 years since coming out always baffels me a little bit, so I wanted to share it to keep hold of this moment hehe :3

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A very cute girl making a very silly face with blahaj and her pillow knit with multiple colors in a pattern

A cutie pie with the other side of her pillow where she cable knit a celtic knot

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still looking ultra clocky because it only lasted a day (mmfgh family issues) but euphoria and finally getting out of the closet for some amount of time was very enjoyable :)

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shork

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15 years on hormones as of this August. Alot of times I didn't think I'd make it. Now I'm almost 40 and still finding little times in my day that make me happy.

Not sure what the point of this post is. Just, that I'm happy I'm still here. And I'm happy I found this community! You're all so sweet.

True joy in us just existing, which seems like a more radical thing every day.

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This might be the coolest outfit I've ever worn...but I'm just not feeling it today.

I feel like my ass is too flat, my stomach is too fat, my hips are a lie, my waist is an average masculine waist, my thighs are just a complete mess shapewise. Meh.

Just a bad day. Hope everyone is having a better one 💜





The seems on this top are done in an incredibly clever way tho. They really emphasize your boobs, even when you're completely flat (like yours truly 😆)
And it's black! I love black. I really like this one

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Lower rise jorts! Finally (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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And when I get the angle, distance and pose correctly, I look...kinda okay? I need some opinions on this

Also, this is a terrible matchup 😭
Jorts and a super long T-Shirt. I'm so dumb...

Please, greater powers, give me hips and a butt 🙏
Just give me a lower body half as good as my mom's, I'm begging you 😭

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i got keys* to my new home (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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These last days with Sertraline have been awkward. Right now, I'm in a good mood and having mood swings is annoying as hell. Well, feeling the withdrawal of SSRI because of unwanted side effect (hypomania). My GP told me I should stop. After 4 days of stopping SSRI my mood shifted from groggy, feeling like shit,headaches to goodish :3

Tomorrow will mark the 8th month since I started E. This is easily the biggest change in all my life. Divorce, coming back to my parents, loosing 25 kg (I've been stagnating for 3 month but still), moving out soon to another appartement with my new partner, volunteering to local trans association, coming out at work, parents and family, having a bigger social life in 8 months than in 8 years. Feeling sometimes happy about my body. There has been some low points, a lot, lower than before sometimes. But overall I'm fucking glad to live again.

Well I'm sharing some joy. Here a picture of me slightly tired at the end of the day looking like I would normally. Without any make-up but a new dress 👗 Yay!

Next photo I'll be ginger again :3

Hope your day have been good too!

(PS: Just noticed how big my breast is now on the picture, I love it :3)

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