I'm glad you're still here ❤️
this post was submitted on 25 Sep 2026
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Thanks ❤️
I'm kinda not right now, but it'll get better
Y'all should be angry at me. You should hate me, at least as much as I hate myself. I'm taking up space in this community that other people need and deserve...god I'm pathetic
There’s unlimited space for you.
Thanks. I feel like an intruder, but I guess I'm still here, so...
no.effin'.way i ever get angry at you. told you many others here and i, all of us really, love you.
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 take some hugs, got an infinite amount for you.
you are a vulnerable sister who's been told horrendous things by someone who should know better and should not see any trans people ever again. heck ! she should be banned from being a psychatrist
Hi from new account!
You are officially French sweetheart now 🩷
Hope you're alright with that tag/title...
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Loutre, tysm 😭
Yeah she was pretty bad. Still gives me trazodone and escitalopram tho and I wanna try those to see if they help. She's my med supply for now...
Thank you so much ♥️
I'm there and I ain't going anywhere so … feel free to message whenever you need to
Tysm 😭
About the user tag...I see you have someone (someone very nice), so if it's too much, just let me know and I'll get rid of it ❤️. It's just a silly little thing
don't worry about the tag, it feels perfect as is :3
yup she's my special someone ^^ I love her so much for being there for me and I do my best being there for her 🩷
That's really wholesome! Super happy for you two. Best of luck and much happiness, lovelies ❤️
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You are loved, you are valid, and I know that you are beautiful, gorgeous and worthy!
I don't deserve words as kind as those. And definitely not beautiful, you'll see once I start posting pics on my new account 😂
Thank you ❤️
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love, please allow us to be present for you. i don't want you gone anywhere, even if it's not up to me to decide (your choice).
you will always be :
- a woman
- a woman
- a goddam beautiful woman
- valid
- loved
- heard
- expected here
you are a wonderful person and i am utterly shocked and angry beyond sanity for what the psychatrist dared to told you !
i am tempted to ask for name and shame the fucker here, but itd be better to tell to a local group nearby your location so that she cannot harm anyone ever again.
Loutreeee 😭
You're such a sweetie and I really mean that ❤️. I got every one of your messages during the current and previous spirals. I really appreciate your concern. Thank you so much for being here for me <3
Love ya, girl 🩷
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So I'm completely out of the loop here, but why would you not be a good person? You were dealt a shitty hand, but that does not make you a bad person.
I'm not sure about being dealt a bad hand...I'm extremely privileged for a trans person, yet I still complain so much...
Thanks anyway ♥️
New account, also. Same Miisha tho
I can only sent you my hugs, we are here for you, unconditiobally. If you need to vent, talk or just Chat about all the important nothingness I am here for that.
You do not take up anyoneS space, this space is specifically for you to use as it is for everyone else who needs it. There is plenty Space for us all. I am happy you are still around!
Thank you so much ♥️. You're so fucking kind, I don't even deserve that, at all...
Thank you. Really. To you, to everyone here. Thank you 🩷
I did not realised you erased your real account. I don't think anybody on blahaj hates you, and you are not a bother. You are giving activity to the community and without you and my precious little bitch, I would still try to repress everything. You are giving me hope with HRT even if I am older than you (your butt, omg) and that psychiatrist can eat all our shit combined. You are a sister and now I just want to offer you a big hug and sushi care with a hot beverage (chocolate, tea or whatever you want)
Mel, that's so fucking kind of you 😭
Tysm sis ♥️. I actually love sushi!
The psychiatrist can go screw herself, really. She's just...bad
Your...precious little bitch...do you mean Loutre? 👀
And what about my butt this time? 😭
Yes the cute little otter, mine
Didn't you post a pic of your butt at some point ?
I see. I'll leave you two to it then. Have fun girls 🩷
Didn't you post a pic of your butt at some point ?
Oh I've posted many 😂
More are on the way 😆
Your butt is really pretty 👉👈 and I would like to have one as pretty as yours (for my little bitch).
Please get better 🫂
Aww thank you, that's super sweet of you ❤️
I'll get better. I will 🩷
Also...we may be rivals now 😂 /j
Maybe some day ^^ and if Loutre agrees when the time come
damn am i about to live the horniest dream life ever ? 🤤
I'll be here, ready. I'm not giving up! 😂
Fuck that psychiatrist. We're glad you're still here
Girl, hey hugs. I think you are valid and you are a woman. That is the truth.
Thank youu 😭♥️
Girl listen to this 54 year old telling you that no one ever starts transitioning too late. If it makes you happy, don't look back.
It took me decades to get over my self hatred. But it doesn't need to take you that long and honey you are doing amazing and you are stronger than you realize. It takes huge guts to come back and be here. Do not be ashamed. You are a badass.
That psychiatrist sounds like a fucking idiot. Fucking yikes. You are not a bad person but you need a better therapist. Keep working on it, mental health can take a long time to smooth out but you can do it. If I can do it, you can do it. 💜
Thank you. I honestly hope it doesn't take me as long. Life would be a lot more fun without these worries
Badass? Me? OwO
The psychiatrist is the worst. I'm not really sure I wanna go back there, despite her being my main and only SSRI source...
Thank you so much 🩷
winters pile
wise the wrinkle
speaking truth.
explanation
Tried to write it as a haiku, following the rule that in Japanese, you write haikus using morae, not syllables. I think they'd be analysed as:
wi•n•te pa•il
wa•is the wri•n•ke•l
spi•ki•n tru•th
but if I wrote it wrong, here's a syllable-based version:
Up pile the winters
wise in wrinkles of life hues
truth cracks in fire.
I hope it came across right, I wanted to say that you put it down very well :D and spoke a great truth. A truth nuke if you will.
You are valid and seen and we support you. It is never too late for transitioning and self discovery and blooming into what you want and are meant to be. We want you here with us, we welcome you here, and you can take all the space you need.
By the way: you are a woman because you are a woman. There is no other justification wanted or needed.
Edit: Forgot to give you a hug 🫂 you clearly need it
Thank you so much, omfg 😭
I really do need a hug ♥️
None of what you wrote makes you not a good person. You are struggling and you need help, but that has nothing to do with a moral judgement. I hope we can provide you with a little support with our words.
Another hug 🫂
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the world is a better place with you in it, keep your chin up. youre loved, beautiful and deserve to be with us together!
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hug for a million years. ❤️
Im so so happy your alive. Also that psych is just straight up wrong and a fucking dick. How dare they say that to you.
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Omg jfc i was so worried about you, please take care of yourself sister, i love you. I cant stand thinking about the worst happening. I dont want to see you go ❤️❤️❤️
Edit: wish i could hug you until all the pain goes away, hoping that through the internet is enough ❤️
We do not believe in good and bad people, so no. We don't believe that. However, even if we did we see no evidence you are bad, just in a lot of pain.
We are glad you are still around Miisha
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. And seriously, fuck that psychiatrist. You'd think especially someone like that would be a bit more tactful in choosing their words 😒
I'm not very good with uplifting words, or good advice. But I just want you to know that you're a wonderful woman, and I'm always happy to have you around. ❤️
You're nothing of those awful things you claim to be, and I hope you'll get to see that about yourself again soon.
i'm very relieved you're still here! nobody here think you're a bad person, on the contrary - there are a lot of us here who love and want to support you. please keep bothering us :3
also, sincerely, fuck that therapist, and not in a good way. nobody deserves to be treated like that.
I'm so incredibly glad you're still here. Please don't do it.
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