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i decided to finally show my face around here ... the reason why i hesitated so long was that i feared repercussions in real life if anybody finds out about my weird takes ... but i think that for 1. i only meaningfully exist through the things that i say and the actions that i take, so i must not back down for nothing, and 2. it feels right and i shouldn't have to justify myself for wanting to participate in society somewhat <3

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[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago

Super cute! Glad you felt comfortable enough to post.

[–] Malica@lemmy.zip 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

thanks, i appreciate it!

[–] minty@aussie.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Cute cat ears :3

Definitely feel the worrying about irl people knowing my takes. I have been considering posting my face, but ive said crazy personal things on here lol

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

yeah you gotta wait a few months¹, then if somebody irl says "look what crazy takes you said" you can say "nah, that was months ago, who cares, i might be a completely different person now, so it's fine" ...

edit: [1]: a few months since you last said sth really crazy. not the last time that you said anything at all.

[–] thestrike@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

hiiiiiii

I like the cat ears :3

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

thanks, they're 3d printed by someone from the nearby hacker space :3

[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I have a pair from 39c3. Could be the same design...

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

i'll try to make it to 40c3!

[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 0 points 4 weeks ago

Me too! You can try to call/text me there, I usually use 2️⃣6️⃣2️⃣3️⃣ (CNC :3) for my 2G phone and DECT handset. It's going to be at a larger nearby venue, Hamburg-Messe!

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 0 points 4 weeks ago
[–] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

oh hey, nice to finally meet you!

i love the ears btw :3

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

yeah i've actually uploaded pics already >.< but not on this account here >.< because shy

thaank you they are my hearing aids because i can't hear very well otherwise :D

[–] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 0 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

yeah i figured that must be the case, i recognized you from at least one other post (mainly because you look so weirdly similar to my sister lmao)

wait what you have cat ear-shaped hearing aids‽‽ wtf that's the coolest thing ever

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

wait what you have cat ear-shaped hearing aids‽‽ wtf that’s the coolest thing ever

lol that was a joke xD

[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago

Well it shouldn't be, someone needs to make cat ear hearing aids so that someone can utter that sentence in earnest

[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 0 points 4 weeks ago

★𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗽𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲★

[–] chattre@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] bloomnolia@piefed.social 0 points 4 weeks ago

She's a kitty!

[–] lostme@piefed.social 0 points 4 weeks ago

★awesome★

[–] ptitfred@lemmy.world 0 points 4 weeks ago

You're braver than I will ever be

[–] loreng@beehaw.org 0 points 4 weeks ago

Your hair is so nice!!

[–] erinmeow@piefed.blahaj.zone 0 points 4 weeks ago

cutee meooww miaowo

[–] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 0 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

more like gandalf_die_12te, amirite?

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

i actually don't care that much about pronouns. yeah, it feels good to be called she, but it's not as if that's life-changing. what i like more is that people realize that i can be really fem, even when i use a male name irl (which is about 50% of the time).

[–] brb@sh.itjust.works 0 points 4 weeks ago
[–] ILikeTraaaains@lemmy.world 0 points 4 weeks ago