Jesus says the way to Heaven is crooked and narrow, and few will find it. Most will take the straight, wide road, and burn in Hell forever. The only way to get into Heaven is to be Christian.
So, sure, He said "love your neighbor", but it's the kind of love that allows Hell to exist and eternal punishment for all who deny Christ.
Jesus was not consistent, according to His own disciples, even. He seems schizophrenic to me, certainly not sane.