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Title. Obviously youtube is out. Google results have been unhelpful. I tried Pornhub, but no dice. I wanna learn how to shave my twig and berries nice and smooth, because I'm a considerate partner - but I'm tired of trial and error and nicking myself on the nuts.

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[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago

Hot shower

Get it warm and loosened up first

Gillette mach 3

Shave toward the tip (so, shave down from above, shave up from below, etc)

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 days ago
[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Just go slow and pay attention, if you're really nervous trim first then use a chemical hair remover just try it on a spot first as some can be sensitive or allergic to it

[–] Quexotic@infosec.pub 17 points 6 days ago (2 children)

But for the love of God, don't try it on your junk first. Try it pretty much anywhere else, like on your thigh or something. Oh my god, just not on your junk, please!

[–] leftzero@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 6 days ago

Yeah, try it on someone else's junk.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You actually should spot test it on your junk, because the skin is more sensitive than other areas.

[–] Quexotic@infosec.pub 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Sure, but AFTER you confirm it doesn't cause chemical burns elsewhere.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] Quexotic@infosec.pub 2 points 3 days ago

Just speaking from experience and compassionate concern. Hahahah

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 10 points 6 days ago

Don't shave! You are much more likely to get an infection down there where it's moist and there's minimal air flow. Use a set of trimmers with a #1 guard.

[–] shadshack@feddit.online 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Get some Nair. Just rub it on all the places with hair, avoid the tip. Wait 10 minutes, then rub the hair off with a wash cloth in the shower. Way smoother of a shave than I've ever gotten with a razor, and soooo much easier and more comfortable to do.

[–] harambe69@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 days ago

I second this. Unless you are allergic to the compounds, this is the best way. The hair will not come back sharp, but smooth and thin. And you don't have to repeat it for a couple of weeks.

[–] AverageEarthling@feddit.online 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Norelco makes a body shaver that is pretty great. The Body Groomer. It's a little pricey but it works well.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Oh man, will def need to check it out. Thanks!

[–] 666dollarfootlong@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Electric shavers in general tend to leave the cut ends of hairs less sharp and thus more comfortable and less likely to ingrow. I used a razor once and will never use one again.

[–] jobbies@lemmy.zip 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

If you're going for smooth just use Veet (hair removal cream) instead. Make sure you get the SENSITIVE kind though.

If you're really hairy trim first - leave about 1cm length.

Wash thorough and moisturise after. Smooth as a baby in 15 mins.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Thanks for the rec!

[–] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Does your partner want this? Every partner I’ve ever had thought he was doing me a favor by becoming hairless in some way, shaving his chest or manscaping all the way down to the skin and I hate it! Keeping things tidy is one thing, shaving down to the skin is another. So unless your partner has expressed a desire for you to do this, ask them first! If you already know this is something they want from you, well good on you for trying to do it the best way possible

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

I pretty consistently have new partners, so I can't say. Really my main concern is going from bush to shaved or trimmed quickly and easily without cutting myself.

[–] normalentrance@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 days ago

You could likely find something on the educational site pornhub.

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