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[–] Kaput@lemmy.world 17 points 5 months ago

How can i tactfully say: i aggree you are a person and will treat you as such. However humam nature is such that your very pleasing apparence is currently shorting pathways from visual cortex to the brainstem. Or in short, i'm turning dumb right now, please hold while i get accustomed.

Of course im mot going to have that conversation, its juste replying to this post.

Sometime it feels like going from a dark room to full on sun, and the brain needs a little time adjusting.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I think it was George rr martin in an interview was asked why he wrote women well

"Well you know, I've always considered women as people."

https://youtu.be/fGmctvlITtI

Even though this is the same man who wrote the "fat pink mast scene." Lactation and all

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 12 points 5 months ago

Th-the angry men lied to me??

[–] 5715@feddit.org 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)
[–] PugJesus@piefed.social 23 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Finding people sexy is fine, but treat them as people first and foremost. Degrading and objectifying people isn't humanizing, obviously, but neither is idolizing them or projecting an idealization of a romantic partner.

[–] 5715@feddit.org 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

thanks!

even your horny posts are schematic...

[–] PugJesus@piefed.social 6 points 5 months ago

Being obsessively analytic is a blessing and a curse alike, lol

[–] wrinkle2409@lemmy.cafe 1 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Could you also explain what you mean by "objectification" and how is it different than "finding people sexy"

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago

Generally, the not bothering of interacting with someone as a person beyond the sexual. It's fine in certain contexts, namely one's where that's what everyone goes into the space looking for, but for contrast I typically know a few non sexual things about someone after a night of heavy flirtation and making out ar a bar

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Go to any NSFW post and look at the comments. Don't say that.

[–] CluckN@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Boobs = upvotes

[–] qaz@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Could you please mark it NSFW and tag it as described in the rules?

[–] PugJesus@piefed.social 7 points 5 months ago

Marked it as NSFW, not sure what to tag it. I didn't NSFW it initially because there wasn't any nudity or near-nudity, and I didn't think it needed it?

[–] GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

Artist is named Telepurte, he has a Twitter, a Bluesky, and a Patreon.