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Most of the time when people say they have an unpopular opinion, it turns out it's actually pretty popular.

Do you have some that's really unpopular and most likely will get you downvoted?

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[–] Mudman@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

That there is a 62% chance that AI is going to collapse the current systems and quickly rebuild a new system where there will be nearly zero chance of corruption in the government. The militaries are gonna be dismantled. Tanks and such motorised military vehicles will be repurposed into tractors for agriculture.

The global wealth will get equalised fairly and we will have nearly perfect global democracy.

Decentralized, based on local clusters of AI based systems that will communicate with other clusters globally and cross reference all data in hyper speed. Humanity and ecosystems will thrive in symbiotic relationship with AI.

[–] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Fuck ALL advertisements. Yes, even "unobtrusive" ones, especially yours. If I want your shit, I will find you. If I appreciate your shit, I'll pay you for your time. If you want to connect, I'm all ears. Otherwise, fuck off capitalists, fuck off advertisers, and fuck off useful idiots who want to waste my finite lifespan in this miserable universe showing me ads.

[–] Granixo@feddit.cl 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I literally just came from another post that was talking about this.

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[–] Shdwdrgn@mander.xyz 2 points 2 years ago

Unfortunately there's a lot of products that most people don't even know exist. Hell I keep finding new tools and wondering why I've been doing things the hard way for so long.

OTOH, fuck all the advertisers who use shady tactics to make sales, and especially fuck all the people who pray on the naivety of others to steal their money. I was just showing a customer an email I got the other day stating her domain hosting was past due and required immediate payment, and she asked how I knew it was a scam. Uh, hello, because ---I--- am hosting your domain and website (and this is exactly why I share this kind of stuff with people, to make them think before they blindly write a check).

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[–] frozen@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 11 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Being fat is a choice the vast majority of the time, and I have a huge bias against big people.

I used to be fat (250ish lbs (110ish kg) at 5'8"ish (172ish cm)), and as much as I would like to blame my shit on anything else, the person feeding me, the person sitting at the computer for hours, the person actively avoiding all physical activity was me and no one else. After I got diagnosed with some weight related shit, I turned my entire life upside down, am at a much healthier 150 lbs (68ish kg), and feel so much better, both physically and mentally.

I'm aware of my bias, and I make every active effort to counter it in my actual dealings with bigger people. Especially because there are certain circumstances, however rarely, where it may not actually be their fault. But I'd be lying if I said my initial impression was anything except "God, what a lazy, fat fuck."

Edit: Added metric units

[–] Vlyn@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I totally get that, same here.

But ultimately you can't just blame people. There is literally an entire industry trying to sell you cheap carbs and fat. Down to the sound a bag of chips makes when you open it (this is not a joke).

So on one hand you have evolution, your body still being stuck in the past where food was scarce. On the other hand you have too much food and it's highly engineered to be addicting on purpose.

It's no surprise most people are going to lose that challenge.

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[–] jsveiga@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 years ago (8 children)

Dogs were hardwired by selective breeding to worship their owners. Not long ago they at least were loyal companions. You got one off the streets, fed it leftovers, washed it with a hose, it lived in the yard, and it was VERY happy and proud of doing its job. Some breeds now were bred into painful disabling deformities just to look "cute", and they became hysterical neurotic yapping fashion accessories. Useless high maintenance toys people store in small cages ("oh, but my child loves his cage") when they don't need hardwired unconditional lopsided "love" to feed their narcissism.

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[–] CheeseBread@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (14 children)

Pansexual, polysexual, and omnisexual are all microlabels and are all subsets of bisexual. You don't need more labels than gay, straight, and bi.

Edit: I forgot about asexuals. But I specifically only care about bi subsets. They're dumb, and you only need bi

[–] RagingNerdoholic@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

And here I thought pansexual meant you really like cookware.

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[–] Treefox@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I agree. All the little bitty addages don't make sense. You can be bi and still have preferences. Just keep it simple gosh dangit.

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[–] Thorny_Thicket@sopuli.xyz 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (9 children)

We don't need more pronouns. We need less of them.

In my native language there is no even he/she pronouns. The word is β€œhΓ€n” and it’s gender neutral. You can be male, female, FTM, MTF, non-binary or what ever and you’re still called β€œhΓ€n”. You can identify as anything you like and "hΓ€n" already includes you.

[–] antimidas@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 years ago

And we've nowadays taken it even further, in spoken Finnish we've even got rid of the "hΓ€n" and mostly use "se", which is the Finnish word for "it". The same pronoun is used for people in all forms, animals, items, institutions and so on, and in practice the only case for "hΓ€n" is people trying to remind others they consider their pets human.

Context will tell which one it is.

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[–] Sombyr@lemmy.one 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Most conservatives, however deeply red, are not intentionally hateful and are usually open to rational discussion. People just don't know how to have rational discussions nowadays and the few times they do, they don't know how to think like somebody else and put things in a way they can understand.

People nowadays think because a point convinced them, it should convince everybody else and anybody who's not convinced by it is just being willfully ignorant. The truth is we all process things differently and some people need to hear totally different arguments to understand, often put in ways that wouldn't convince you if you heard it.

It's hard to understand other people and I feel like the majority of people have given up trying in favor of assuming everybody who disagrees with you knows their wrong and refuses to admit it.

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[–] loffiz@feddit.nl 8 points 2 years ago

USA is an oligarchy. I can imagine americans disagree. But perhaps not lemmies.

[–] eddy@infosec.pub 7 points 2 years ago

Religion is nothing more then social engineering on a grand scale.

[–] Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago

People who are strongly against nuclear power are ignorant of the actual safety statistics and are harming our ability to sustainably transition off fossil fuels and into renewables.

[–] Ringmasterincestuous@aussie.zone 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

After an entity reaches an annual cap (say $5m profit), 95c of every dollar should be taxed

[–] GreenMario@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

Give em a "you won capitalism!" Participation trophy πŸ† too.

[–] christophski@feddit.uk 6 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Not having kids because of climate change is stupid. You are leaving the world in the hands of people who care less than you.

[–] AdmiralShat@programming.dev 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I upvoted because this contributes to the discussion of the question, but fuck you

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[–] Sarcastik@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Counter opinion.... Given the terrible trajectory of our world and society as a whole. Plus how every living generation has failed to do even the bear minimum to solve it... You're kind of a shitty human being by condemning your children to suffer our mistakes.

Not to mention, you're not that awesome and ultimately part of the problem, so maybe we don't need more of you (or me for that matter).

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[–] shrugal@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

We have blown the concept of ownership way out of proportion. No one should be able to own things they have absolutely no connection to, like investment firms owning companies they don't work for, houses they don't live in or land they've never been to.

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[–] toomanypancakes@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

There's no ethical way to kill someone who doesn't want to die. This applies to more than just humans.

[–] HalfSalesman@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago

Man I got a lot of them.

  1. Free will isn't real.
  2. I'm kind of OK with AI replacing our jobs under capitalism, even if things get bumpy because I think because its unsustainable for various reasons and it'll eventually cause economic collapse and we might live in a better society afterward.
  3. Nuanced "soft" Anti-natalism
  4. Currency is fine. The left was wrong about Crypto.
  5. He might not always be right but Vaush is funny and its OK to watch his streams.
  6. We should all fuck each other more and monogamy is retarded.
  7. Oh also its OK to call things and people "retarded"
  8. Virtue doesn't matter only consequences.
  9. Bisexuality is secretly more common than hetero & homosexuality.
  10. Religion and spirituality should be illegal.
  11. Autistic people should rule the world.
  12. That Trump won a second time reflects a fundamentally disgusting moral weakness in most of humanity that I will never emotionally recover from.
  13. Linux is good but most of Linux users ideology about GUI is awful.
[–] Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago

Lemmy.world holding such a prevalent place in the Lemmy/Kbin part of the Fediverse makes it a major single point of failure.

They should still be the newcomers instance, but communities and users should migrate to other instances to increase the resilience of the Fediverse.

[–] BynaD@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

I find it insane that the same people who are anti-fossil fuel and want only green energy is also anti-nuclear power. I also want fossil fuels gone, but nuclear is the only way we are able to get to where we need to.

[–] pir8t0x@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 months ago

Only people who love kids and take care of them properly should have babies. Not all people deserve to have kids!!

Tax is not theft

[–] demesisx@infosec.pub 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

Bernie would have won had he not been blatantly cheated in the 2016 DNC primary. We’d be in a MUCH different timeline had he won.

Edit: Corbyn was done dirty in the UK too.

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[–] dillydogg@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago

I LOVE banana flavored stuff. When I say this, people will often say "even banana flavored Laffy Taffy?". Yes, that's the best flavor and it's not even close.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The worst maker mistake humanity has ever made was not killing every nazi after ww2.

I've gotten some nasty responses to that one lol

But I'm fucking right

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Blaming slow drivers for your dangerous driving to pass them immediately and dangerously has the same energy as a rapist blaming what the victim was wearing: The other person made me do it. I have no agency over my own reactions.

[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The average American does not give a single shit about protecting minority or women's rights, from my lived experience. Not unless it affects them directly.

[–] Alenalda@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Air conditioners should be outlawed. Watch how fast people wake up to climate change when they can't escape the heat.

[–] MeatsOfRage@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Reddit is gonna be just fine and the shade we like to throw around here isn't even a blip on their radar

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[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Eugenics sounds really cool. Not the mandatory sterilisation style, but breeding superhumans? Don't pretend that wouldn't be cool.

[–] mobyduck648@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

Here’s an opinion that’s actually unpopular rather than simply controversial: domestic flights in the UK other than to Northern Ireland (which isn’t on the same island so fair enough) should be forbidden on the grounds their contribution to climate change cannot be justified.

Instead we should renationalise the railways by letting the franchises expire without renewing them and expand their capacity as far as we can. Instead of pissing around with HS2 we fuck the NIMBYs over with an Act of Parliament which they can’t swat away or delay and extend it all the way up to Scotland.

[–] takoman@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I don't believe in prison for punitive justice. Prions should be used to keep society safe from dangerous people, not punishing them imo.

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[–] LongPigFlavor@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

We've been living in a dystopia for a very long time now, we're just becoming more aware to it.

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[–] Wilshire@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Owning a second home should be illegal.

[–] Parsnip8904@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

I would rather go with it is illegal to leave a home unoccupied unless you stay there for more than X days an year, say 100.

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