I need to make dinner but have a snoring dog curled up on my leg
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Thanks. Its good to feel like things are slowly moving again.
Thanks mate ๐
unKAOS achieved (or at least started). Clothes away; rubbish out; kitchen/bathroom/deskspace/dining table cleared and cleaned. Floors vaccuumed and mopped. Bedroom still dusty - my carpet fitting on the vac is playing up and i need to fix it.
But good enough for today. Cupboards and shower need a. Deep clean but i can tackle that one at a time.
Now. Might pick up some wine and head back to pups place. Now i don't dread coming home later this week
Penny has zero regrets
Sipping coffee and having cuddles with the old pup i am dog-sitting. This is my second dog sit this month and it's really helped with my burnout to get out my my apartment and hang out with puppies. And my friend left me a stocked fridge and a clean house so it's like a little holiday. But today's plan - another coffee and bite to eat then head back to my place and do an unKAOS for a few hours. I think i will time limit it. Its not horrific but definitely the home of someone who's been drowning and it makes me sad..i would like to get it back so it's reset and it can start actually decluttering
puppy tax...there's a little old man under there somewhere

Ooh it cold out there. I have procured pizza inputs and am now looking forward to dinner
Well I also don't have a toaster (I use a cast iron griddle instead)
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Can see both sides. Is there some way to make it a ritual? At a time of day sit/hug her? Like morning and night, hug and talk to her, then move. I am not saying move on or that you restrict your feelings but I find it helps to ritualise grief, by allowing it it's space you can feel all the feelings and also live? Sorry not being articulate.
(For reference triggered to cry my eyes out over someone who's been gone for a decade today. So I get it. Any way through is ok. )
Happy (late) birthday spud ๐บ๐ป๐๐ป
Its ok..you have done the right thing
No..that will NOT be a sore throat starting.. noooo