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[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 41 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

I agree the world would be better with more autstic organisation.

How exactly can we make public transport less overwhelming though?

We (and adhd) should also be careful towards this line of thinking does not spinning out into a superiority complex. Presumably the neurotypicals aren’t being weird or dumb, there just born differently and prone to being stuck in a narrow mindset. (Irony intended)

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 16 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Re public transport:

In Europe a few years back a piercing noise was added for closing doors (for trains, trams subs etc), supposedly helping some disabled.

However exactly this is torture for some people with sensory overload.

Changing this would help a lot.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Which just feels incredibly condescending actually, as someone that uses a wheelchair. It reminds me of when people talk louder to me because I'm using a mobility aid. Like, there are better (visual) indicators that could be used for hard-of-hearing folks, so I'm struggling to understand which disabled folks this benefits compared to traditional door closing auditory indicators. There's a Melbourne tram rolling stock that's similarly loud and shrill.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I assume it's for people with eyesight issues / blind. At least that's what I read about it when it was introduced. However even then I have severe doubts in that helping (I also had a legal blind colleague and know how he got around).

So I don't really think it helps any amount of people weighing against (statistically) possible 1% of Autists that might have more trouble with it.

And yes you're right it seems some kind of default reaction by people to raise the voice, also for instance when I don't (and can't, and I told them beforehand!) understand in busy environments.

Thanks for your answer and perspective! I always think of 'you' when a regular stop in my home city casually states that all elevators at that stop are broken (for at least weeks) so you'll just have to take the next stop (... And then??).

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 10 months ago

Most blind folks have "better" hearing than you or I though, that's what confuses me.

As for the elevators, where I am they mandate at least two lifts for every connection. It's funny because my train stop is quite busy, but only has two lifts as it has an island platform. However, a few stops away they have four elevators despite being way less trafficked, because it has two side platforms.

[–] ExcessShiv@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 10 months ago (2 children)

How exactly can we make public transport less overwhelming though?

Fewer people per sqm I busses and trains would help a lot.

[–] angstylittlecatboy@reddthat.com 10 points 10 months ago (2 children)

That lessens the advantage of public transit over cars though

[–] ExcessShiv@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Yes it probably makes a small dent in the environmental benefit, but uncomfortable public transit is an even bigger disadvantage because then people take cars instead.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Hardly though, right? You would have to lower it to like maybe 4 people per carriage to match typical car usage. Besides, increasing the number of trains running during peak can solve this.

[–] Ledivin@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Lol, not even - more like 2, maybe 3 if you include the driver

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

Look, I was trying to be charitable :P

[–] Daedskin@lemmy.zip 32 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Is anyone else bothered by the grammar of the items in the list? Like what kind of sentence is this?

"... the world would consist of have dimmer lights & softer music."

[–] gilgameth@lemmy.world 11 points 10 months ago

It fucks up my mind. I feel like it's written by an NT.

[–] bluesheep@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 months ago

It annoys me to no end

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 14 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I enjoy harsh, bright lighting. It makes my brain think, it's the middle of the day, so we need to be awake and doing things. 🙃

[–] PigsInClover@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago

Same! So happy to see I’m not the only one. Blue light regulates our sleep cycle by inhibiting melatonin production. During the daytime, I need my bright lighting.

[–] Lazhward@lemmy.world 11 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Learning styles are a myth though, it basically just boils down to people learning more effectively when they're better able to pay attention.

[–] scottmeme@sh.itjust.works 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I'm a raver... Soft music and I don't exactly mix.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 15 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I imagine this is about music in public settings like restaurants and such.

[–] scottmeme@sh.itjust.works -3 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Do 2000 people venues not count as public?

[–] hardcoreufo@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

C'mon you know what they meant. Obviously its a public place, but its one you've actively chosen to go to, to experience loud music. Thats different from going to a store to buy pants and they are blasting music.

[–] Ledivin@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

...no. Of course not. It's a venue for an event, presumably with ticketing, not a public park or something.

[–] KonnaPerkele@sopuli.xyz 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Is Finland autistic paradise?

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago

Every once in a while I hear about how grocery store clerks in the US are expected to have an actual conversation with customers, so at least we're good in that aspect.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 6 points 10 months ago

The people who say everyone is a little Autistic are the ones who have been hanging around a bunch of Autistic people. They may be Autistic themselves.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Excellent question! It's kinda similar to a tic, there's a quick read here

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Thanks! I did all those thing so much but I don't any more, at least not excessively 😋. Self stimulation, it makes a lot of sense (for me) 🩷 !

[–] lemmyknow@lemmy.today 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

softer music

B-b-but… mah hardstyle

[–] RisingSwell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Softer music is also my one main disagree. I need my metal and my rap and my electro thumping.

[–] lemmyknow@lemmy.today 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I want my kick real loud and my beat real slow. Bass all the way up, don't turn that thing low.

Praised be the holy bassgod

[–] RisingSwell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 10 months ago

I want full speed all the time, and loud enough that you can't really hear me trying to sing along. Don't really have the breath for a lot of the rap I attempt

[–] whoisearth@lemmy.ca 3 points 10 months ago

Judging by my son you also forgot copious amounts of gore like everyone should enjoy videos of the top 10 face getting ripped off scenes in movies.

Also, cats.