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[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 15 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Never. Turns out my issue was undiagnosed ADHD and trauma. Therapy and adderall have done wonders for me. I was trying to treat depression by itself, not as a side effect of another issue.

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Similar case for me, but I would recommend OP or anyone reading to work it through with their doctor (or even switch), being honest with them and oneself.

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 2 points 4 months ago

Yes exactly. It took me a few doctors to figure out what was going on because the first couple didn't ask the questions that the doctor who diagnosed me did.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 2 points 4 months ago

I'm not officially diagnosed autism but my doctor said I meet the criteria but didn't want it written down due to the political climate.

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 12 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I took estrogen for depression, it started working within a week :p

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)
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[–] IlmariGanander@lemmy.wtf 3 points 4 months ago

Sounds like I should test if going on testosterone does the same someday.

[–] chattre@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 months ago

wtf same?? 😮

solution: everyone gets free estrogen! /j

[–] towerful@programming.dev 11 points 4 months ago

Venlafaxine (SNRI).
Took a couple weeks to settle into side effects, and about half a year to dial up the dosage (with side effects being a few days to a week after dosage changes).

But it was pretty immediate. I think a big part was the act of treating it, the act of getting help.
Had a lot of ups & downs, took a while to "trust" it, to recognise it working. And building the habit of taking meds helped maintain a schedule.

[–] nondescripthandle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 4 months ago

Define 'working' becsuse a lot of strife can come from the differences between what you're expecting it to do and what will actually happen. For me, it just made it easier for me to lift myself out of bed in the morning and that's about where the progress ends. And that's the one I found after years of trying ones that were worse. They're not happy pills, they just let you deal with the horrible shit instead of becoming immobilized by it.

[–] silspd@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago (4 children)

Escitalopram took only one day for me. For both anxiety and depression.

Bupropion took 3-4 weeks. For depression.

Trintellix took about 2 weeks. For anxiety.

[–] T00l_shed@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Escitalopram also worked quick for me, but killed my libido

[–] silspd@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It was my miracle cure until I switched to Trintellix. Yes, it killed my libido as well, but Trintellix is not as bad.

[–] T00l_shed@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'll talk to my Dr. Thanks!

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I, too, would like to talk to your Dr. Thanks.

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[–] hoch@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I didn't even realize my anxiety was bad until I started getting heart palpitations. I now take escitalopram and it stopped within like a week.

[–] IlmariGanander@lemmy.wtf 2 points 4 months ago

Escitalopram fixed my Raynaud's at a low "taper up" dose basically immediately. Although it wasn't prescribed for that, this was just a happy side effect. I guess some SSRIs do that.

For depression, it took about a month to ramp up enough to see a difference. It did ease the anhedonia, but it also masked my emotional flashbacks until it was too late to disrupt them.

I also had SEVERE issues with my sodium while on it, which is why I didn't stay on it past a month. However, I don't snack or eat salty stuff so someone with higher sodium intake might have fared better.

I would have tried to get used to it to see if the masking of the early signs of flashbacks got better as I got used to it if it hadn't messed up my sodium so badly.

Also, the sexual side effects are real.

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[–] HotsauceHurricane@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago

It just kinda blended in, I don't have a real timeframe. I am very helpful.

[–] mika_mika@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago

Months. It took months of my med schedule before I was like "maybe these are working". My motivation and functioning was like zero still, but I wasn't depressed anymore.

Then doc put me back on a stimulant and it was so much more drastic an improvement I was frustrated we didn't do that first.

[–] AndyMFK@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

They never worked. For some unlucky people, anti-depressants just straight up don't work. If you're new at it, keep at it, but if it's been a few months it might be time to switch medication. if you've already switched a bunch of times, they might not work for you and your only option is probably therapy

[–] Zak@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

"Some unlucky people" turns out to be 85% of people with depression. What that suggests to me is that depression is a syndrome with multiple causes, and typical antidepressant drugs treat one of them.

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[–] Klear@quokk.au 7 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Depression: Faster than immediate - I felt much better the instant I finally decided to treat it as an illness.

As fir the medication itself, ignoring not feeling too good from side effects, I was most surprised how it *immediately* fixed my sleep patterns, like day 1.

That felt like the foundation on which the rest of the improvement was built.

[–] Jeremyward@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago

Wellbutrin, somewhere in the week to a month to really start working.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago

Depression. Sertraline/Zoloft. Months.

Initially, it helped a small amount. Possibly placebo. It was well-tolerated, so the dose was doubled. Then months (maybe 3?) of slight improvement.

But when it really took hold it felt sudden.

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 4 months ago

Fluoxetin: ~7 Weeks, 12 full effect.

Seratrelin: pretty much instant (side effects) main effect like never idk

[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 6 points 4 months ago

Immediate. I tried prozac and it was absolutely horrible. After a week of taking it, I was so utterly miserable that being depressed was a step upwards, and I felt ~~great~~ not so bad after coming off it. That kept the depression away for quite a while.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

If I could be just slightly drunk 24/7, I would be so successful.

[–] fizzbang@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

There’s a movie about that. It’s pretty good

[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

What's the movie?

It's not Drunken Master is it?

[–] fizzbang@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Another_Round

This is the one I was thinking but drunken master fits as well!

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 months ago

Great movie

[–] kyonshi@piefed.social 5 points 4 months ago

Depends on the meds, and they can have a drastically different effect on people.

Duloxetin: days, full effect after about a month (side effects after a year or so)
Sertraline: never worked, in fact made stuff worse
Prefaxine: about three weeks to feel noticeable effect.

[–] zlatiah@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

Depression, Prozac. Approximately 2-3 weeks when the initial benefits kick in, which is also how long it roughly took for me to feel depressed again when I once accidentally stopped the medication

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 5 points 4 months ago

To fully work? About a year. To some improvement, 3 months.

It never started to work for me and I tried pretty much every antidepressant on the market. They just put me in Zombie mode and I slept 18+ hours a day. It's 20 years ago I first tried meds and always waited the recommended amount of time for them to kick in, it just never happened and by now I just say fuck it and try to cope without them.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

I took prozac for a little over a year. It never did anything for my depression or to help stop smoking, but it did give me ED while on it. So if you want to still be sad but also not ever jerk off or have sex, I'd recommend it.

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[–] Apocalypteroid@anarchist.nexus 4 points 4 months ago

I took citralopram for a couple of years. It took about 3 weeks to kick in.

[–] troed@fedia.io 4 points 4 months ago

Depression: SSRIs, within a few days Anxiety: Promethazine, within a few days

[–] northernlights@lemmy.today 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

About a month for me. I'm taking both. It needs to build up in the system if I understood what the doctor said right.

(Edit: and booze completely kills it, just saying)

[–] FollyDolly@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Zoloft, it took three days to start working. It had been an absolute gamechanger for my anxiety and I love it. 10/10

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago

I’ve taken a bunch of anxiety meds. The only one that worked somewhat was Ativan, but I stopped after a few weeks because I was too anxious about taking it regularly and developing a benzo addiction.

[–] sturmblast@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Never worked

[–] DaleGribble88@programming.dev 3 points 4 months ago

Anxiety meds typically a few days to start to notice. Depression meds either had severe negative side effects almost immediately, or positive effects would start showing up after 2 or 3 weeks.

[–] Curious_Canid@piefed.ca 2 points 4 months ago

I have now been on anti-depressants for almost five decades. In that time, I've used just about everything out there, and transitioned from one to the next. Unfortunately, the honest answer is that how long they take to kick in varies widely based on the specific medication. I'm sure the patient's condition can also change it by quite bit. My average has been around a month to get a useful effect, but my minimum is probably around a week and my maximum more like three months.

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