People will create the most creative, awesome, fantastic worlds just to stick another love triangle in there smh.
Books
Book reader community.
Just read reviews?
I am only getting new books from library systems and these fantastical romances make up most of the new acquisitions. I don't really look forward to new book notices because it's always like 85% were-badger smut now. And then I can't even rant about it irl because I'd have to explain were-badger porn to people. 🙁.
I don't mind romance in my fantasy as long as it's done well. I found a lot of terrible and extraneous "romance" in Teen/YA fiction growing up which convinced me at the time that I disliked any romance in my fantasy. Turns out what I actually dislike is clunky sex scenes written by Mormons whose only experience is being the third at a jump hump.
Had to Google that. All of my will power has been spent not downvoting you in revenge for this new cursed knowledge. Have a good day ma'am/sir/compatriot.