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[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 84 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (7 children)

"You'll become more conservative as you get older."

I have consistently grown more and more leftist as I've grown older. Rent goes up faster than taxes. [redacted] your landlord.

[–] TheRagingGeek@lemmy.world 22 points 6 days ago

Heard this one a lot, guess they figured everyone would go the fuck you got mine attitude of the boomers, not realizing that you can’t onboard the youth while maintaining full unmasked racism and marginalizing the value of the same youths perspectives. Another one is “you’ll understand when you’re older” which to the surprise of no one thing he “when you’re older” part never matures in discussions with these types.

[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 8 points 5 days ago

Rent goes up faster than taxes.

And isn’t it fun when rent goes up even when the mortgage does not? And especially when the mortgage is fully paid off?

I was also told that about conservatism. Actually understanding conservatism and capitalism - and how fascism is essentially the corporate state - has bodily yeeted me so far left that I’m two shakes away from being an anachro-communist.

[–] phx@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Is this "Conservative" as in the political affiliation though, or "moderate/cautious"? I think one thing is that current "Conservatives" are anything but

[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

"Conservative" as in hating taxes and loving capitalism

[–] dethedrus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 days ago

You and me both. Plus I suffered a horrendous enough TBI that I should anecdotally love Trump and his diet nazis.

Fuck that noise. Mutual aid and DSA getting a seriously foothold in American politics is a good first step.

[–] Kewlio250@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 days ago

"[redacted] your landlord." Hey, some people manage to pay their rent this way

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Yeah my beliefs have grown more nuanced as I left my early-mid 20s, but it's a pretty far left form of nuanced. Meanwhile as a teenager I was downright centrist on a lot of issues and conservative as often as I was liberal/left. I didn't stop believing in capitalism until college

[–] dream_weasel@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I heard this one too. Maybe it used to be more true than now?

[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 8 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Science has shown that how easily you become wealthy determines how likely you are to shift conservative.

Boomers - in America and Canada, at least - grew up into adulthood during the most expansive period of the middle class in human history. There has never before been a time where someone with an 8th grade education could find high-paying employment and become moderately wealthy off of it with just a few basic financial techniques. It really was stupidly easy to live a comfortable middle-class life. Show salesmen and VCR salesmen could do this without any serious financial stresses.

So yeah. While some resisted the shift right, many did not. They climbed the ladder, and upon reaching the top they pulled the ladder up after themselves and told the younger generations, “fuck you, I’ve got mine”.

[–] LwL@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

It's probably true on average. As you get older, chances are some of the things you fought for when you were younger are now the new normal, and further change is something you're more skeptical about.

But definitely not something that's going to apply to every individual, plus when the world is mostly regressing as it is right now, the whole effect should disappear.