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Doesn't have to be thousands of dollars. Just a thing you spent money on that turned out to be a complete waste.

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[–] jldevezas@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Exactly, but even if your tuition is paid for with a grant, alongside a stipend, I would argue against pursuing a PhD, with the only exception being when you want a job in academia, like you said. The amount of money you'll be making in academia is absolute peanuts compared to the industry, and the same goes for relevant work experience.

Personally, I had to get a grant with a stipend, or else I wouldn't be able to afford it. I also got to lecture as an invited assistant for a year, but I never really wanted to teach. I wanted to dedicate myself to research, but I quickly realized nobody around me was actually trying to push the boundaries of knowledge and, instead of discussing ideas, learning from each other, and taking some freakin' risks, what I found was a lot of ass kissing, and seniors constantly doing paperwork to get funding, while delegating research to students. Everything that mattered to me felt secondary to everybody else. It felt quite lonely, so I eventually made the decision to leave, after nearly 20 years studying and working at the university.

It wasn't easy (still isn't), and this is why I like to share this perspective. Maybe it can save some heartache and financial hardship to a few people.