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Have you tried saying that while nervous because you're being confronted by law enforcement? People tend to become monosyllabic under stress.
As the above commenter mentioned, the "legally correct" answer is typically not the most expedient.
Even if the cop is a dick, they are almost always mostly concerned about doing their job more than pinning 10,000 trumped up charges on you. They are there to meet their quota and do a cursory poke around to catch people carrying a trunk full of heroin.
Really what you should do is keep your hands at 10 and 2 until told otherwise, be polite and pleasant, and comply with all requests promptly with a "yes, officer". Of course, the lemmy edgelords will say that you should never tell an officer anything because "muh rights" - and sure, you have the right to make the officer's job as hard as possible and piss them off to no end. But the officer has quite a bit of leeway as to how they might proceed in your interaction - and making their life harder probably wont endear them to you
"Have you been drinking?"
"Yes, Officer"
*Yes, Ociffer
I’ve said that or something similar numerous times to cops. But like the guy above i’m a white guy and also a veteran of war so their little macho show doesn’t really do anything for me.
My suggestion if you get stressed in that type of situation is to expose yourself to situations that are more stressful but you’re in control. Something like skydiving or race car driving. That should dampen your adrenaline response a bit and allow you to think at stressful times.
I'm too old to get stressed by a cop lol, but yes that is a valid point. Makes me think having it printed on a business card could be a solution 🤔
Ya know, I bet some civil rights social media attorney already has them printed and sold them on Etsy or some such