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it's super common man. many people have no morality, they just seek to exploit and use other people for their own gain.
I have been on the flip side. Several women at work hit on me and went out with me, only for me to find out they had a husband/boyfriend they lived with. They wanted me to bang them and have fun with them while their less attractive boyfriend at home paid their bills for them. One of these women actually married the guy, with a big FAT engagement ring on her finger. Poor dude. I met him once at work, he was not a good looking guy, but he bought her nice things and she liked that.
I think cheating is fucking gross, so yeah I never saw them again and basically didn't talk to them at work anymore. In their mind, I was the asshole, because they just wanted to have fun with me, and I didn't play along.