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Not every woman gets pleasure or can even climax from vaginal intercourse
Which is OK. But communicate that with your partner.
Ideally, yes. Real societal norms demand some specific behavior from women that make that difficult. I am not a native speaker so I am having trouble to find the right words. Maybe this is enough :)
I can understand societal norms in certain places silencing women from fully disclosing sexual preferences and limitations. But, in my opinion, if you care about a woman having or faking an orgasm, you should also care about making sure you are both comfortable expressing your preferences and limitations before fucking.
Fully agree.
not every partner wants to communicate.
sometimes communication with your partner... results in violence from your partner.
people generally, don't like enjoy being the victims of violence.
If you have to choose between bad sex and violence, you're getting raped.
oh, is that true even if I'm a man?
Probably.
right, but if i was a woman it would totally be true.
almost as if there are double standards when it comes to sex and rape.
But most of us can. More of us can than do.
That would be an interesting area for an empirical quantitative study.
I wouldn't know for I lack the parts.