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Phrasing.
Phrasing wise, yeah what they said wouldn’t work and this person is clearly early career. The most effective response to this (when it’s something I want to stop) is calling it “auraless” or “odd” behavior with varying intonation based on age group.
No I mean presenting as you used it without a specific topic has sexual connotations that especially shouldn't be used with children.
“Presenting”? Like, we’re talking about giving presentations? Presenting is the skill of giving presentations?
How the fuck did that even come to mind?
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jC2iwJelwco
The term presenting has other meanings. You need to get your mind back in the gutter if you don't get it.
The presenting makes it come