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Signal is nonprofit
Whatsapp = Facebook (Meta)
thats everything you need to know about the striking differences of the two. One actually tries to respect your privacy while the other is exploiting you for using its product
The friend I mentioned actively uses Facebook and Instagram. I have tried to argue against it many times but I am getting exhausted. I just don't want to be forced to use spyware because the majority said so
You arn't going to get them to end thier use, so you can only draw a line for yourself and decide not to participate if they don't go with Signal. It sucks but if they value your presense then they will need to decide to branch out and use another app. And JFK if they use those apps, they can fucking install another and use a better one
Easy and insulting way of finding out how important you are to your friends is to tell them on Whatsapp "I'm done with being forced to use this spyware app, I'm moving to Signal, you can contact me there." Then maybe reminding them a week later about this, then uninstall Whatsapp.
Either they think you are important enough that they go through the awful trouble of spending 90 seconds of their lives installing the Signal app, or they think thats too much trouble to keep in contact with you.
I did that, found out that my friends didn't really care too much about me lol. A couple did and thats nice. You don't need 735 friends anyway. Or at least I dont.
Your friend intentionally doesn't care. Don't bother trying convert them. Keep texts casual and be real in person.