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What is this called? Is it a situationship or something? (discuss.online)

submitted 4 months ago by IHatePepRallies@discuss.online to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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So I have this one girlfriend and this one ex. We are polyamorous so I have been dating my girlfriend “Renee” for a year and my ex “Sylvia” while I was dating Renee with her permission. I’ve known Sylvia since I was 9 but I’ve known Renee since like first grade.

Anyway, Sylvia occasionally flirts with me but she has two girlfriends (one is her recent girlfriend who happens to be Renee and the other is this girl “Ruby”).

I’ve seen a lot of Relationship posts and I’m thinking it’s “partner problem season” or something.

So Sylvia does flirt with me and we are on-and-off partners. We broke up again a while ago but I know we’ll probably be back together. Her charm really makes me wanna be with her because she’s energetic, pretty, and charismatic, but she also spends way more time with her partners, rightfully.

She barely even talks to me and just plays some video game like our favorite, Doki Doki Literature Club or just Minecraft or something.

Sometimes she acts like she likes me and cares about me but other times she engages in the same behaviors as the ones that made me break up with her, her neglecting my needs.

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[–] IHatePepRallies@discuss.online 0 points 4 months ago

I shall delete this then