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[–] hanke@feddit.nu 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

In stark contrast to pubs and nightclubs

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Pubs make just as much money if you're in a relationship or not. The motivation is to sell you alcohol they don't care about your relationship status.

[–] hanke@feddit.nu 1 points 1 year ago

Fair point.

Also, I agree the profit incentive is a huge problem.

[–] red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The difference is that pubs and nightclubs are not exclusively for people who are looking to meet other people. People go there with friends, to have a good time. Not so much with online dating sites.

[–] shortrounddev@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've never understood the appeal of meeting people at bars. If you want to build a relationship with someone, why not do it with someone you already know? Ask out a coworker or classmate or something. Why approach random people in bars purely based on their appearance?

[–] GoodLuckToFriends@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Because there is a very real sentiment called "Don't shit where you eat." I learned it the hard way in two different workplaces. In the first one, we broke up and it ruined the work environment. In the second, the 'no' was expanded to HR complaints and lawsuits, again ruining the work environment. Knowing someone has (or had) romantic interest in you can be a pain, and it can definitely blow up a working relationship.