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I'm wondering if I'm starting to outgrow Tailscale... my wife keeps having networking issues on Android due to Tailscale, the Nvidia Shield kills the Tailscale app randomly, and my parents' TV doesn't have a Tailscale app...

I feel like the time is approaching to publicly expose some of my services to the internet...

Any other tips?

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[–] paequ2@lemmy.today 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

site-to-site VPN configurations between routers at each location ... the router itself handle routing of specific traffic over the VPN connection, instead of needing each device to connect to the VPN individually.

Interesting. This could help with my home network and my parent's, but I also need to handle cases where I don't control the network. I have clients that are phones. My family would expect that the services keep working even if they're in a different city on cellular or at a friend's house.

[–] neatchee@piefed.social 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Site-to-site and individual client setups are not mutually exclusive. They can co-exist.

I have Wireguard on both my phone and laptop - and tailscale should work the same way - which I only activate when I'm away from my home network.

You could even set it up where each "roaming" device is always connected to their "home" network by VPN, which uses site-to-site to further route the traffic where it needs to go.

[–] paequ2@lemmy.today 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

“roaming” device is always connected to their “home” network by VPN

Ah, right. Well, currently I do have my wife's and my phone on the Tailscale VPN. The issue I'm trying to solve is that the VPN app on Android (and other environments) isn't 100% bug-free. For some unknown reason, my wife frequently has issues with Tailscale. It'll break her entire networking on her phone. The only way to fix it is by rebooting her phone. I have no idea why because we have the same phone and the same settings and it works fine on my phone. I've tried turning off Tailscale, logging out, and back in, and the network won't recover. Sometimes the Tailscale app won't even trigger the SSO page to sign in. So it just stays permanently logged off.

The Nvidia Shield also has similar issues where I have to fuss around with the VPN.

So at this point, I feel like I'm done debugging VPN apps and maybe it would be easier for users if I expose stuff to the public internet. Obviously, it makes management for me harder, but that's ok if everything Just Works for everyone without extra steps or without having to reboot your phone every week.