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To what extent do you think parents should financially support their kids? (lemmy.world)

submitted 6 months ago by rayoflight@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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I know opinions on this vary a lot depending on the country and culture, so I’m curious what others think. Personally, I have a 22-year-old son. I bought him a house and a car, I pay for his university tuition (his grades are high enough for a state-subsidized spot, but we feel that should go to someone more in need), and I basically support him fully. We want him to focus on his studies and enjoy this stage of his life. He will finish his dentistry degree in 2028, and then we plan to finance the opening of his private practice. We’ll stop providing financial support once he’s earning enough to live comfortably on his own. I see many parents online (especially in North America) talking about kids moving out at 18, paying rent to live at home, and covering their own bills, and it honestly shocks me. That feels unfathomable to me. I believe that as parents, we have a duty to give our children a good life since we brought them into this world.

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[–] SoaringDE@feddit.org 1 points 6 months ago

It is part of a system where everyone gets a xhance to study. If your partents can't afford to pay for you tongo to university then the state will pay out bafög as described by another comment. If you request Bafög but your parrents make enough money to put you through uni the state will force the parrents to pay, or at least to pay back the state for the Bafög it gives to the kid.