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[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Sure! Big cities can be super isolating, especially if you:

  • don't drink
  • don't enjoy clubbing
  • don't drink coffee
  • don't play or enjoy sports
  • live in one of the 'less desirable' areas, due to living costs or proximity to work.

Even when some of these weren't true for me, people who are well established in large cities generally have well established social groups and, although they might be lovely people and very welcoming, aren't really in the market for proper friendships. Those who are also new to the city like you are very prone to move on themselves within a year or so.

Conversely, people in rural areas are simply desperate for friends. Within 2 months of moving to the country, we had different 2 couples who made it clear they wanted to give being friends a proper go - simply because they are desperate and we seem like we're on a similar vibe. There's definitely much less variety in sports, especially high level stuff, but conversely (as you said) we now have much easier access to great hikes/day walks. People here are also significantly more likely to be interested in gardening, pickling, jam making, bread making - all the self-sufficiency stuff. Much less of a "grindset" which can be super exhausting. Oh! People in rural areas also seem to be more likely to like board games, which my partner loves.

Don't get me wrong, I love big cities - the amazing food, the great public transport (I LOATHE driving), the culture and events. Everything has pros and cons though.

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It might be naive of me but I think there is. It's a lot of work but we can develop self -sustaining communities that support each other. That support can look a variety of ways too, from shopping at each others small businesses to sharing crops from gardens and farms.

There is definitely no magic country though. I just returned to my home country after jumping from job to job in Europe trying to find a place for me and my family that wasn't awful. Unfortunately, being an immigrant is hard no matter where you go and people will take advantage of your vulnerability.

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

You're welcome, and yeah fair enough. I'm a big believer that there is a structure for every scenario and desired outcome. I think most flat structures (including communism) haven't worked historically because people are too culturally engrained with classism. Plenty of non western "tribal" cultures seem to make flatter structures work perfectly well, though I obviously don't agree with every aspect of their cultures either

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Love this. Where is this? I'm trying to convince local people that we can develop less car-centric spaces in rural areas and I'd love more examples to use

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I've lived in 4 of the biggest cities in the world and I've just hit 30 and moved rural - smaller cities are best for socialising, but depending on your hobbies rural can be better than big cities. Completely agree that walkability is key, just adding nuance that I don't agree that cities in general are great like I used to - it can be very hard to live a nice life in a major city

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

Yeah not having a government issued email is completely bonkers in this day and age. They should never have allowed Google to fill that gap.

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I agree with everything you said apart from the last bit. "even rich people can be idiots" implies that they are less likely to be idiots than your average Joe.

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Half the supermarkets in the UK are co-ops. I would start there and see what happened historically to enable this.

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

You're assuming that jobs are allocated to people/AI based on merit or competence or some other logical metric.

Just like the correlation between the cost of a product and it's quality, these used to be true, but have become increasingly decoupled or even inversely correlated as marketing and sales tactics (or more simply, propoganda) have become more and more effective.

Edit : my bad, I didn't read your entire comment properly. Yeah, I think companies that hire people and only use AI sparingly will survive better. I wouldn't be surprised at all to see the majority of the global economy to collapse beforehand though

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Yeah that's true

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Yeah it is insane how many of them have no higher education, or conversely simply got a PhD and have never worked in industry before

[–] Ogy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I mean, yes, but not nearly as much

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