FearsomeJoeandmac

joined 3 years ago
 

its super scary... i dont know how to deal with it.

i just need some laughs

 

Anyone else deal with this? i have a lot of trauma in my life and it resurfaced often enough to cause me problems.

Right now im just medicated, but prehaps i need a therapist

Entitlement is definitely a huge part if it. i was just stating why a large chunk of incels obsess over specifically white women. Especially blonde ones

incels feel entitled to what they percieve to be the most beautiful women and in western countries thats usually seen as white women

[–] FearsomeJoeandmac@hexbear.net 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

White women are pedastalized as the exemplars of beauty in western countries because of whites being most numerous in those countries and the beauty standards reflect that

Unfortunately this causes a certain sect of men to only desire white women and nothing else will do, they then have mental break downs like Mr Rodger. psychotic incels who see everything as race and about 'aquiring' a white woman. id feel sorry for and want to help them if they didnt insist on hating everyone and regularly decide to kill everyone around them.

I just like a gorgeous woman with good features, regardless of race

its hilarous because in japan whites in general are seen as long limbed and hairy with big noses

[–] FearsomeJoeandmac@hexbear.net 0 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Yeah this is some elliot rodger type shit. Elliot rodger used to crap himself if he saw a brown or black dude with a white woman.

He himself was half asian too.

 

I mean it's the body type I prefer on chick's I don't care if they're white, black or whatever I just prefer that body type.

My sister called me a pig today when we went out to lunch lol.

I just can't personally get attracted to thin women myself.

 

Something happened and I'm crushed. Would like a chick to talk to

I don't know if we can actually request this kind of shit around here, but mods, let me know whats up if I have to delete this

 

We talked for 14 hours one day, not in one go, but throughout two seven hour conversations.

I have some treatment coming up that I really need to be focusing on before romance with this woman.

How do i get her off my mind?

Right now is not a good time... I need to take care of myself first before entering any sort of relationship.

 

So a chick I have been flirting with online back and forth for almost a year (she was honestly more into me most of the time than i was her) has just done a complete 180 to saying she's not interested in that way.

Obviously I'm backing off and respecting her wishes like a normal sane dude.

Any ideas on what might have happened though? She was obsessed with me at one point. The only thing I can think of is maybe she's found someone else she's talking to that catches her eye more.

Either way. I was kind of falling in love with her so this sucks and it hurts big time but I respect her wishes and I'm trying tocmove on

Any ideas girls especially?