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How do you find guys to date? (lemmy.world)

submitted 10 months ago by andros_rex@lemmy.world to c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I try to be open about the fact that I’m trans on apps like Feeld, but it attracts an annoying amount of straight dudes/straight couples looking for fun.

Grindr is basically just guys looking for sex.

Taimi seems to want you to pay for everything, and it also seems entirely straight dudes.

I’m not really into the bar scene. I used to do art classes and stuff but I’m broke now and those are mostly women.

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[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Gym?

[–] ttl@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 10 months ago

that's crazy

[–] Tangerine@scribe.disroot.org 0 points 10 months ago

eharmony?

It’s a paid service but they’re also inclusive. I admire your courage especially in this sometimes crazy world. Good luck, fellow lemming!

[–] BlahajByte@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 10 months ago

i wish i had a good answer but the dating world is apparently just getting harder and harder. the creepyness of a company making money and collecting data has turned me off ever trying dating apps. perhaps all that's really left it to do hobbies you enjoy and strike up conversations with strangers doing the same.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 0 points 10 months ago

One of my friends just went on a birding escapade with a queer group. You might look for something similar in your area?

[–] PoopChute6969@piefed.social 0 points 10 months ago

You're supposed to date women dumbass