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Posting this here because the metal community seems to be entirely links to tracks and I'm not sure how well received this would be there. Also, I'm open to anything that goes more on the punk rock side of things. I like a little punk in my metal and a little metal in my punk (which is very subjective anyway).

Basically as the title says. I'm bored of my current selection of heavy music and looking for new stuff. To per-emptively get ahead of these answers: yes, I've heard Kittie, Nightwish and Arch Enemy before (actually haven't listened to Kittie since the nu metal days and maybe I should check them out again).

Two bands that I have found in recent years that I absolutely love are:

In This Moment. They started out as pretty much straight metalcore but have a noticeable evolution with each album, to the point that the most recent album sounds like this. Evolution is something I appreciate in a band.

Butcher Babies. Just straight up chaotic. And good shit. And they're even named after an old school punk song. Chaos and attitude is something I also appreciate in a band. Pity that one of the vocalists left though, having two vocalists was something that really set them apart.

Any other suggestions?

Edit: wasn't expecting so many great suggestions here. I promise I'll make my way through each post and suggestion here but it's going to take time. In the mean time, thanks everyone. At this rate I'm going to have more than enough new (to me) stuff to listen to.

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[–] plz1@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

So female fronted metal is my jam. Your examples have a solid range, but here's some of my picks:

  • After Forever
  • Beyond the Black
  • Ad Infinitum
  • Delain
  • Within Temptation
  • Unsun
  • Cellar Darling (and earlier Eluveitie if you don't mind male and female singers mixing)
  • Amaranthe
  • Stream of Passion
  • Illumishade
  • Lacuna Coil
  • Leaves' Eyes
  • The Murder of My Sweet

You'll find a ton of female fronted bands in what (I think) is referred to as "scandi-metal) (Sacndinavian Metal).

[–] 404@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago
[–] cattywampas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If you're willing to go more the punk route, look into the riot grrl genre. Sleater-Kinney is a good starting point.

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[–] thr0w4w4y2@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Birthday Massacre, Within Temptation, Lacuna Coil, Eths, Infected Rain, Amaranthe

[–] sober_monk@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Amaranthe's awesome. My workout playlist is mostly them.

[–] KammicRelief@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Brutus. Stefanie Mannaerts is the lead Singer and drummer. Simultaneously! She is absolutely amazing and has so much power in her Voice. My favorite Band of 2025.

[–] squirrel@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

Hanabie

Especially this live performance and their album from 2021 has some real bangers.

[–] normalexit@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Jinjer, Arch Enemy, Unleash the Archers, spiritbox (and iwabo), Devil Electric

[–] HexPat@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

The Warning

[–] Penguincoder@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Oh dang this is right up my alley.

  • Amberian Dawn
  • Arch Enemy
  • Spiritbox
  • Metalite
  • Otep
  • Warlock
  • Epica
  • Within Temptation
  • Delain
  • Amaranthe
  • Diamante
  • Orianthi
  • Sirenia

Spotify Playlist

I posted this on a similar question a few weeks ago. I’ve been down the rabbit hole with these bands lately:

Stitched up heart, New Year’s Day, September mourning,

-chick singer led goth metal bands

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Excellent question! Have you tried !gpral@hilariouschos.com the mod there is lovely

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Hello... Hope you're hanging in there and taking care of yourself this evening. Sorry for taking so long to respond to this, I meant to get back to this thread sooner.

It's a real pity that I can't even see that community (and a couple of others there) from here. I wish you could convince your friend to open an alt community in more neutral ground. Or try to make some sort of amends with all of the instances that are de-federated with hilariouschaos. There's some big ones de-federated from it, even piefed.social, which I tried the other day.

If you're interested, now that I'm attending to this post, it seems likely that my next fixation on something to categorise and make lists of is going to be this very topic lol. I'll probably only be done in a couple of months from now but if you would like, I could post my results in Women's Stuff (or I could pass it on to you to post, if you prefer). Otherwise if you think it's a better idea, I could post it to gpral from another account, although I wish I could do that without feeling bad about Blåhaj people being blocked off from it.

And, just gonna ping your new account in case you never look at the old one anymore: @LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mate that would be great! We'd love to see your stuff if you do it deffo post it.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yay, I'm glad you like the idea! As I say it might take time though. And depending on how much, I might split up punk, heavy and general alternative. There's already some good stuff in this thread, stuff that was out when I was going out to clubs and shit but that just never got played anywhere. Apart from the obvious stuff like Arch Enemy and Nightwish. Funny that.

Anyway, at least now my next stint of making lists won't be so pointless.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Great ideas, and dont worry about time. Making lists doesn't sound pointless and nothing that you enjoy is ever a waste of time. Your enjoyment matters

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Haha no I've spent a lot of time working on things that ultimately don't matter much. And sometimes get consumed by it to the point of starting to pull all nighters. But I do enjoy it, yup lol.

Hope you're feeling better and thanks for the encouragement!

[–] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 1 year ago

Have you tried hard techno? Check out Cassie Raptor

[–] MDCCCLV@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Dark Moor with their first 3 albums with Elisa is great.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elisa_C._Martin

[–] turtle@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I only have a passing interest in metal, but I heard about this Indonesian Muslim all-female metal trio (Voice of Baceprot) a while back and was impressed when I watched the videos of them playing. It's trippy to see them wearing hijabs and all while kicking ass playing metal: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v4728NJ7B8

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

I got kinda (very) overwhelmed by this thread. I was expecting like 5 responses, so you thank you very much for all the suggestions. I have finally made a list from all of this and will be replacing just about my entire music rotation with everything here. Once I find my favourites, I'll probably let you know some time in the future lol.

Thought I might as well drop some names that are already in my collection that I haven't seen mentioned here, for the sake of anyone that might come past here in future. Including stuff that's more on the alternative / hard rock side of things.

General Alternative / Rock:

  • 4 Non Blondes
  • Anneke van Giersbergen (singer of The Gathering)

Old School:

  • Heart
  • Janis Joplin
  • Siouxsie Sioux and the Banshees

Alternative because off-beat / weird:

  • Portishead
  • Tori Amos
  • Björk

Punk:

Hard Rock / Grunge:

  • DILLY DALLY
  • Guano Apes
  • Skunk Anansie

Heavy:

  • Devilskin (band I discovered in New Zealand)
  • Octavia Sperati (singer went on to do an album or two for The Gathering)
[–] athairmor@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)
  • L7
  • Lunachicks
  • Veruca Salt
  • Bikini Kill
  • The Muffs
  • Cibbo Mato
  • Blonde Redhead
  • The Evens
  • Shonen Knife

Some of this is more punk or pop-punk.

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[–] pyr0ball@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Nobody in here gonna mention Scene Queen?

[–] DeJaVuLXXXI@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

The Gathering. Older but still good

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 1 points 1 year ago

I love Myrkur's stuff. How heavy it is varies widely from album to album, anywhere from straight traditional Danish folk music to the lighter end of black metal, but I like both ends of that spectrum

There's also Feminazgul, who I'm not super keen on but their name is so good that they deserve a mention anyway

[–] 2xsaiko@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

Spiritbox and Conquer Divide!

[–] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] LNRDrone@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't think I've heard of In This Moment or Butcher Babies, I will check them out.

Meanwhile if you're not allergic to melodic BM, I really like Dämonik, example track: https://youtu.be/kRNHUFt8oPs So far they have two singles out and I believe they're working on an album. There is also old demo EP from 2018, but it's a little rough compared to these.

I'll try to check what else I've got that is all female / female fronted. I think there are a few more I like, but can't recall what atm

[–] lemming741@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

When I'm not yelling at clouds, I like Tsunami Bomb

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RCQedL2w81I

[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago
[–] christopher@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Burning Witches is good

[–] Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Spirit Box, Rolo Tomassi, Cellar Darling.

Poppy, more her new music than old. Some people don't like her style but it's not strictly just hard metal.

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[–] MyBrainHurts@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

More garage rock than metal/punk but the Pack AD is a lot of fun.

[–] Devmapall@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Synlakross is pretty decent but it's got both male and female vocals .

Castle Rat is a fantastic thrash metal band also (I think they're thrash. All the subgenres get confusing)

[–] Sergio@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 year ago

If you dig industrial, check out

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 1 points 1 year ago

Since i haven't seen it here and it's one of my favourite bands: iwrestledabearonce

[–] SineSwiper@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] plz1@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Wow, that took me down nostalgia road...

[–] ossada@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago
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