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As the baby boomer bubble pushes into its eighties, we are driving into a demographic wall.

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[–] schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works 88 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Or you can view it as living in a system which may, and often does, compel all of us to eventually visit potentially deadly violence on someone else.”

I was just Watching Dead to me, which is a show about good people doing horrible things, and two of the three seasons settle on accidentally killing someone with a car.

That is to say the question "how do we have a character remain sympathetic after they've killed someone?" is "easy! we'll put them behind the wheel!"

Just as the question,"How do we make this bank-robbing villain sympathetic?" is answered by "make them have to pay for their child's treatable illness."

We could build a better society just around making writers' jobs more difficult.

[–] pomegranatefern@sh.itjust.works 44 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I laughed aloud at "We could build a better society just around making writers' jobs more difficult."

[–] schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 weeks ago

We could even name the bills after the villains they were designed to prevent. The Thanos Act would guarantee free birth control to everyone.

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[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 24 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

yes, my 84 yr old mother, had a stroke in her eye and lost most of her sight in that eye, still drives no matter me telling her often not to. How she keeps her license seems to revolve around Doctor shipping, as the oldies all know the doctor to go to to get their license renewed.

She'd never take public transport if it was at her door, so you'd need something better than just good public transport, like banning everyone over 75.

[–] skribe@piefed.social 16 points 2 weeks ago

My old man was legally blind and he spewed some serious invective when I took his keys away.

[–] Successful_Try543@feddit.org 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Having only one working eye doesn't make driving impossible in itself. Yet, this requires training for the proper perception of distances in depth and a sufficiently working remaining eye.

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[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

or make meth to pay for cancer treatment

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[–] the_wizard_of_0Z@lemmy.ca 33 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It is not just a boomer thing.

[–] zip@lemmy.blahaj.zone 42 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

You're absolutely right. I have a whole long list of specific health issues that mean I absolutely should not be driving, but holy hell, the amount of people (of all ages) pressuring me to get a license like I'm just lazy or refusing to 'grow up and become an adult' is BONKERS!

These are people that see how extremely often and ridiculously I full-on run into or sideswipe things while walking. They see how often I pass out, or my vision goes black. They want me behind the wheel of a speeding two ton death machine!? Car culture is wild.

I do feel awful being a burden on those around me who can drive, though. We don't have any public transportation or a walkable city (not that I can walk far anyway, lol.) Trust me; if I could drive, I fucking would!

Also... Both my parents have seizures (that are NOT under control) and continue to drive, even though they definitely shouldn't. My father has had them while driving and woke up in a ditch multiple times. They're not boomers, either.

[–] motionofethre@piefed.social 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I met a ~26yo girl who told me I wasn't in the same stage of life as her because I didn't have a car....

By any other capitalistic metric, I was more "advanced" in life... But I didn't have a car 😱 (comparing money is dumb, just making a point)

[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Unfortunately, in american culture, to a lot of people "having a car" means "being grown up" and "not having a car" means "not being grown up."

It's a childish mentality really, and indicates that that 26 year old hadn't done any "growing up" in approximately a decade.

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[–] motionofethre@piefed.social 30 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

A sane person would think this could maybe help encourage people to push for bus routes

[–] core@leminal.space 17 points 2 weeks ago

Nah, the narrative will then be "just wait it out, they'll be dead soon, crisis over" ignoring the generation getting old right behind them

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[–] switcheroo@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Perfect age for running a fucking country. Hire them to the US gov immediately. They'll fit right in.

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[–] lechekaflan@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Japanese dashcam videos are a preview of what horrors to come.

[–] vorpuni@tarte.nuage-libre.fr 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

Japan has passenger trains.

It will be much worse.

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[–] foodandart@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 weeks ago

Japanese dashcam videos are a preview of what horrors to come.

Throwing down a terrible stereotype here, which in my 60+ years, has turned out to be more true than not, ..but older Japanese men and women are notoriously bad drivers.. esp. the old men in hats.

Holy hell, do not EVER wear a hat when you drive. It sucks the ability to control a car right out of you.. God's honest, I have seen that one play out over decades and it's frightening and it's real and I do not know why.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 21 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

If we had robust public transport for everyone, this wouldnt be as big an issue.

Dont forget that it is not generation vs generation, its the 1% vs the working class.

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[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Interesting, I am one of those boomers. my insurance runs out Monday and I am selling my vehicle. This is by choice as I am going blind. I absolutely refuse to be one of those old farts that kills people by driving because they want a pack of smokes or some candy.

My scooter arrives in 2 weeks. I already have my pirate flag, and lots of cool stickers ready for it.

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[–] kestrel7_7@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago

Who could have possibly seen this coming??

[–] Poem_for_your_sprog@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

The world they created for themselves. Stupid shits.

I know exactly one boomer that supports public transit over cars.

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[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] SpinItBetter@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There is always the possibility of the end of humanity.

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[–] jade52@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

This fucking terrifies me. My mom is 79, living in the most rural place ever, wtf is she gonna do when she has to give up her license? P.s. if anyone else has been in this situation what did you do?

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 21 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

If you live somewhere that you have to drive to take care of yourself and you can no longer drive, you can no longer take care of yourself.

You move to where you can either take care of your self or be taken care of.

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[–] chris@l.roofo.cc 14 points 2 weeks ago

My grandma moved closer to people that could help her and where she was more mobile without a car.

[–] Waffelmeister@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

My girlfriends grandma is 90 and she rides her e-bike almost daily. But we have some bike lanes and a grocery store is nearby.

Maybe locally organised carpools?

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[–] TrackenDaKracken@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

At around 84, my dad caused a small fender-bender, that's when my sister told him he had to stop driving. He couldn't turn his head to see behind him. That sucked for my sister, because it fell on her to get him out of the house for grocery shopping, etc. She was the only one who still lived in the same state. He ended up in an assisted living home for the last two years of his life with dementia.

Public transportation is great, but they don't go into the suburbs. I suppose Uber and Lyft are the solution there, but my dad had no idea how to do that, he didn't own a cell phone.

Capitalism has been fucking us hard for over 100 years, the offenses keep piling up, and only now are people starting to realize how bad it's gotten.

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[–] arak@lemmy.today 12 points 2 weeks ago
[–] BlakeFox808@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My 95 year old mother in law picked me up at the airport and still goes golfing each week pushing her clubs around the golf course. I trust her than most kids on the road. However, She is much different than my 80 year old mother where the doctor took away her handicap pass because she kept hitting cars in the parking lot.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

People don't want to accept it, but we really should be testing drivers more frequently. We don't, cuz car brain society, but we should.

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[–] LazyOldPervert@lemmus.org 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

In what fucking world is it ok to avoid jail because you're fucking old. If she's too old to go to jail then we need an option to euthanize elderly criminals.

[–] SpikedIguana@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Would it make you feel better if it was actually because she was wealthy?

[–] LazyOldPervert@lemmus.org 7 points 2 weeks ago

I mean i saw that bit too I'm just sick and fucking tired of everyone but regular motherfuckers not going to jail.

You're right but the headline punched my rage ticket.

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

They'll either move into homes or be cared for by family, same as it has been for decades.

Sure they'll kill some people before their kids take their keys...

[–] Fredselfish@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Not my boomer parents they can rot far has I am cocern.

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[–] inari@piefed.zip 9 points 2 weeks ago

To an extent that's already the case...

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Same ever since automobiles appeared. They'll just be more old fuckers on the road nowadays. Insurers are salivating over all of the future claims they can deny.

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[–] AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The Price Of Freedom is about to go up steeply

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[–] GrindingGears@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 weeks ago

This describes my hometown to a tee. Thirty years ago.

[–] Leather@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

🎶 Take two down, they blindly crash around, sixty-nine million nine hundred ninety-nine thousand nine hundred ninety-eight Boomers to go! 🎵

[–] iuseasahibtw@ani.social 6 points 1 week ago

Good, insurance premiums are about to go up, like all of them, health, auto, death by boomer insurance...

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (8 children)

Yes and most of them live near me.

And they’re ruining cars. High, upright seating position because they can’t get out of the car, big chonky tires on an SUV chassis because they hit potholes and curbs, measly little engines because they’re not going to use them anyway, driver assistance because their meds make them impaired.

Cars will be cool again when old people don’t have to drive.

[–] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Cars are will be cool again when old people don’t have to drive

So, never?

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