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So I (19F) have an ex (21F). She threw me out when I was no longer useful to her and seems to always want to be the center of attention. She shows signs of Cluster B disorders just in general, and she tried to make me seem like the bad guy by claiming I abused her, sexually harassed her, beat her up, and said I should go get raped and die.

She also said "men when you hate them" even though I'm not a man, she keeps misgendering me.

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[–] Rumo161@feddit.org 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Im so sorry you have to go through this. Hopefully you can find some peace now and maybe someday you'll look back an see the power you gained with the pain you had to indure.

Lots oft love from a stanger.

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[–] Klarinette245@feddit.org 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Thank you 🙏 She is the worst ex I’ve ever had, always has to be the victim

[–] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 4 points 3 days ago

Damn. I’m glad you’re out, that sounds like a profoundly traumatic environment. I hope you have a good support system around you.