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I have a full time job but some coworkers suggested I could apply to a department with a manager who seems to be a complete sociopath and seems to always need personnel.

In said department, there was a nurse that worked part time to finance her bachelor to be a physician assistant with the promise to be hired afterwards. She was sometimes very talkative and a gossip but otherwise a good nurse. Barely a week before the contract was to be signed, after she got her degree, she was told they found a better candidate with more experience so they wouldn’t hire her.

Obviously, she used all her sick days and then quit. Why would anyone work for a manager like this?

Chilling and very sad that people are sometimes like this. She was used.

Would you work for a manager like this? Because some coworkers would like me to apply to work for this guy,because they're always shorthanded. I’m not asking because I need this job, but because it’s always good to know what other options you have before looking elsewhere.

Believe people when they show you who they are would apply here.

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[–] mafishfayda@lemmy.world 11 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

​I worked with a manager who lived by the rule "everyone is replaceable"! Whenever conflict happened between employees, he would simply let them go, or fire one of them, instead of trying to resolve the conflict, completely ignoring the team chemistry and the dynamic they had built, as well as the time it would take to hire and train someone new from scratch. Sometimes, he’d even pull someone from a completely different department just to fill the gap. He didn't believe in specialization at all! To him, anyone could be dumped into any position, it's as simple as that!

[–] vestmoria@linux.community 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

how long did you last there? And didn't anyone higher than him check the department's turnover?

[–] mafishfayda@lemmy.world 7 points 9 hours ago

The manager was the company owner himself. I stayed there for about 15 months, saved up some money, and then handed in my resignation.