It's not though. I'm not working backwards. I'm just not writing a dissertation. It's possible to observe lack of sex leading to psychological pain in all the different societies throughout all of history we have as humans. It's incredibly more likely to be caused by our biology than by artificially created societal expectations.

[–] Blooper@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I agree with you because it's my anecdotal life experience. I'm quite successful in terms of my career and finances. I'm pretty good looking and outgoing. I'm also a single dad and I'm in a nearly year-long dry spell. My self esteem is awful. Not having sex is torture for me and it has nothing to do with societal norms. It's just biological misery.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

There's always more to it as well. That's maybe what people don't get. Yeah, not having sex is terrible, but if it's the only thing unpleasant it's bearable. But if other shit starts piling on top, then it becomes misery. Then people might say "oh it's only society".

Hope you'll feel better friend. Seems you've got the masturbation going nicely already, so that helps 🤣

[–] Blooper@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 10 months ago

Lol what else can you do I guess.