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[–] Delta_V@lemmy.world 39 points 10 months ago (3 children)

There is no amount of nice you can be that will prevent shitty people from doing enemy shit.

Being well armed is as close as you can get to having no enemies.

[–] alekwithak@lemmy.world 26 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I was gonna say, people love to take advantage of the nice. Be a nice person, sure, of course! But you're gonna run into enemies and if you just keep being nice they'll take you for everything you've got and then a little extra.

[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 10 months ago (2 children)

You're describing naivety, not nice. Be nice to everyone, until you're given a reason to stop being nice.

[–] alekwithak@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago

Just describing my own experience. Maybe I'm naive.

[–] Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Sounds very Canadian. We are very nice….until we aren’t, then the Geneva Conventions get created.

[–] 0_o7@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 10 months ago

Yes, Canadians are so nice they'll assist their neghbor in all their war-crimes.

Fuck off with that "Canadians are nice" propaganda bs. This ain't reddit anymore.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Being nice doesn't mean letting people walk all over you

[–] alekwithak@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

It means they'll try.

[–] Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That’s why I open carry at family gatherings. I don’t need to be nice to my extended family as long as they know I’m strapped.

[–] Zwiebel@feddit.org 12 points 10 months ago