my “friends” would often pretend to like me while talking behind my back and later threatening me to my face, yelling at me, and saying rude things like that i should die because i tried to start a conversation with them. i later found out they were only pretending to like me and they “pitied me so they were just trying to be nice because they’re nice people”.

they also hated that i was autistic and would constantly bully people different like autistic people and furries.

the person who bullied autistic people and furries also tried to get me to pass a ball, got mad when it flew over my head, and in a rage, tried to throw it at my head.

this person constantly goes into rages. they get angry very easily to the point of raging and become very violent, insulting me, threatening me, and trying to hurt me, i believe.

is this average bullying behavior? that’s all, i’m just curious.

How is your mental state lately?

Yayyy!!! Our relationship is back to normal!!!

i’m 22, gay trans man. my boyfriend is 21, cis man. he said women, specifically lesbians are boring and that he prefers men, specifically gay guys but not straight.

how are lesbians boring?? I don’t get it. is it because gay guys like men and lesbians don’t? i’m trying to understand, sorry 😭

For context, my gf and I were talking and I called her favorite shows, including adult swim shows and YouTubers stupid and said that Adult Swim artstyles were ugly.

I also said that Beavis and Butthead was a stupid show and asked why she watched it, and that I would never watch it because I hated it.

I apologized because I said everything wrong and mean, but I feel so bad.

I’m good. Today I woke up and I felt depressed, but I think I’m better now. All in all, I’d say I’m an 8/10. How are you all??

My fiancé David seems to have an “I can fix him” mindset with his friend Sean. David is always making excuses of Sean’s toxic behavior towards him and stuff.

Sean clearly does not like him. Sean is always ranting and blowing up at David. He never wants to talk to David or hang out with him. He makes David really sad but David wants to keep his promise to always be Sean’s friend and thinks he can fix Sean or something.

I appreciate that David is trying not to talk to Sean anymore. I’ve just been worried about him that his friendship with him is one-sided and not the best, but I can’t control him and I don’t want to at all.

I just don’t know what to do. Kind suggestions, please?

Sean left a rant saying: (shortened, paraphrased) HOW DARE YOU JOIN THE MILITARY WITHOUT MY PERMISSION

I’M IN SO MUCH PAIN. I HAVE NO FRIENDS AND NO ONE TO TALK TO AND YOU HAVE FRIENDS AND A FIANCÉE AND YOU DONT LIKE ME OR EVER PAY ATTENTION TO ME AT ALL

I’VE TRIED SO HARD JUST TO BE YOUR FRIEND BUT YOU DON’T APPRECIATE ME ENOUGH. YOU’RE SO UNGRATEFUL OMG YOU SUCK.

YOU ALWAYS SAY YOUR LIFE SUCKS, YOU NEVER THINK ABOUT MINE?? IM MISERABLE!!!

i have really bad attachment issues to my fiancée. it sometimes feels like I can’t live without her.

I’m quick to assume that others are bad people who hate me, especially if they leave for a little bit or use a certain tone with me. I’m very sensitive to that.

i would have pretty bad “attachments” when i was a high schooler, and I’d go from thinking they were super great to thinking they were terrible friends.

i wish i wasn’t like this. it’s been better now, i’m just wondering if there’s others like me who think like this.

You are loved and cared for here 💓

sleep well 🌙

It says “religion” but I put a name as “Logan” and now I will just use it to seek advice and stuff. I will stop trying to force my religion onto people. I have a lot to learn but I will learn as much as I can.

Sometimes, when I reassure my girlfriend, I’ll say when someone is an asshole, “maybe he just X”, like “maybe he just had a bad day” or “maybe he’s not mean, he’s just upset” or “your dad has to take care of the family, so when he’s mean to you or mom, he’s stressed since he cares”.

Am I being rude for this?? Kind advice please. Or when her online friend said “IM GONNA KILL EVERYONE” I told her it was a joke and she shouldn’t say anything because it was probably him joking.

(I don’t mean to make a whole saga of my life, I just wanted to talk about this.)

My (24F) sister Lena (14F), for anyone who hasn’t seen my previous posts, has a boyfriend named Dominic (16M).

Dominic has dealt with his ex James (16FtM). Dominic keeps calling James by his deadname because he doesn’t like James. He eventually blocked James and rarely mentions him.

“I will properly name and gender people who don’t abuse me”.

I wouldn’t say Dominic has zero empathy, but it’s definitely not a strong suit of his. Dominic, I hate to say this, kind of reacts to gender the way a 65-year-old dad with little experience on transgender would react if his kid was trans or something.

Dominic tries to understand, in other words, but doesn’t. I want to educate him, but I feel rude doing so, even though I will correct him sometimes. He will say stuff like “Sara is a trans girl, so she is actually a boy but now she is a girl.” I can tell that he tries to understand, just not with people he hates like James. But he does try to understand with most people like “Sara” in the example.

He has a good heart. He’s really a good kid, he just fails to empathize or understand sometimes.

I posted about my religion before, but I want that to be my account for my own hobbies and stuff and this for religion and my girlfriend.

She and I are in a Long Distance Relationship, where she is a few years older than me. Neither of us went to college.

I’m Christian and she is also agnostic. We have some similarities and differences. I messed up and said that she’d go to Hell if she killed herself, but I apologized to her. She was mad, but she says she forgives me and still loves me.

I decided I wouldn’t say that again, but I have my beliefs and she has hers. How can we make this work? I also believe that God is the one and only God and that my girlfriend will die in Hell instead of live forever in Heaven if she doesn’t believe him.

She does, though, since she doesn’t know for sure (agnostic theism). I just don’t want her to suffer, please help!

Notes:

My sister Lena (14F) sent me these pictures (so “Me” is Lena, not me) and said I could use them as long as the names were blacked out for advice and such.

Ashlyn (blue, 14F) apparently has NPD, which could be a reason but doesn’t excuse her behavior. She is known for being an overall rude person, especially towards Lena, and is also known for exaggerating, giving vague explanations, not able to identify people and messing up timing on things (bringing up drama that happened “recently” when it either never happened or was weeks ago), and even lying that people don’t like Lena when they clearly do. Lena’s confusion makes me wonder if half of the stuff even happened, and if it did, possibly not in the way Ashlyn tried to convince her it did.

Most people Lena talks to don’t even seem to be too fond of Ashlyn and say Lena was far kinder/more respectful than Ashlyn was, ever.

and i don’t mean weirdos as in creeps who objectify people for example, i mean those people who kind of stand out.

most of the time, the bullied people tend to be really nice. a lot of them happen to be autistic, i’ve noticed, as someone with autism + adhd. (obviously that’s not always the case)

🌟 be kind 🌟

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