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If you were extremely wealthy (hundreds of millions or over a billion), you wouldn't be famous; you would just be a very wealthy person (lottery, business, investing, high-income job, whatever). Would your extended family know you are wealthy, or would you be very vague around them and not flash your wealth?

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[–] superduperpirate@lemmy.world 0 points 9 months ago

Vague. The lower profile the better. Ideally, nobody except my lawyer, accountant, and fiduciary will know just how wealthy I am. Instead of having a driver haul me around in a tricked out SUV, I’ll drive a 10 year old Toyota sedan. Ideally, nobody would know I was rich until I died and my lawyer and executor started putting my estate through probate court. “What do you mean Uncle X had $400M in the bank? Why did he never say anything?”

Because I don’t want to deal with grifters and scammers and con artists and gold diggers and the like.